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Old Oct 29th, 2012, 12:34 PM   11
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Oh sweetie the what if's are so very hard but it is very unlikely tht drinking caffine did this. They will look at your placenta and see if it had lots of clots etc and that will give them an indication of what hppened.

If you have any questions about what to expect or what ever then feel free to pm me. My first stillbirth was at 36+6 and I was so scared to meet her, my second was at 24+3 and I thought I should be less scared as I knew what to expect but as I knew she was the size of a 19/20 weeker it made me MORE scared as I didnt know what to expect of a baby of that gestation.



 
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Old Oct 29th, 2012, 12:34 PM   12
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So sorry for your loss of Grace and Paige.

Thinking of you and your family at this time.

Take care of yourself. All my love. xx



 
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Old Oct 29th, 2012, 12:36 PM   13
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Thank you everyone. It was shocking for us too because everything seemed to have been going well and I have been taking my blood thinners as they were prescribed and following the doctors orders religiously. My doctor didn't have a whole lot of explanation, although I hadn't been feeling much movement the past several days and I had been feeling them quite a bit since 17-18 weeks. Hopefully after they're born we'll have some answers. I worry that it's because I started the pregnancy out underweight and still haven't gained much. I was still drinking caffine too, so maybe that had something to do with it.
Never think that this is something that you caused These sometimes unexplained things happen, as horrible as they are, but you are not at fault. Please dont worry that its you that has done this. As some of the other girls have said please if you cant go through it alone, take someone with you for support. xxxx



 
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Old Oct 29th, 2012, 12:38 PM   14
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TatorMom, this is not your fault!!! You mustn't think that!



 
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Old Oct 29th, 2012, 13:08 PM   15
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As the others have said please don't think it's anything you did or didn't do. It's not your fault



 
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Old Oct 29th, 2012, 13:20 PM   16
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I am so very sorry for the loss of Grace and Paige. As the other ladies have said, do not blame yourself!! I wish I knew why these things happen. You will be in my thoughts and prayers!! If you need an ear, I am here.



 
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Old Oct 29th, 2012, 13:21 PM   17
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Please please please don't blame yourself!!! It just wasn't the right time for your little angels but it is NOT your fault!! I'm so sorry for your loss, you and your family are in my prayers.



 
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Old Oct 29th, 2012, 13:27 PM   18
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So sorry for your loss.
You mustn't think it is anything you did or didnt do though. I think caffine is linked to early miscarriage anyway not late loss.
Please take care of yourself over the next few weeks. x



 
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Old Oct 29th, 2012, 13:34 PM   19
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I am so so sorry to hear about your losses!



 
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Old Oct 29th, 2012, 14:15 PM   20
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so so sorry hun. i cant believe it. heaven has two more angels now. please dont blame yrself. its not yr fault. somethings are out of our control. look after yrself hun and each other



 
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