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Old Nov 18th, 2012, 11:55 AM   11
fidgets mammy
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Thats exactly what ive said to oh. This has gone in since i was pregnant with finn. She is dragging me down. She cant see what shes done because shes too busy blaming me. Oh is furious with her. She'll not apoligise as we r still waiting for the one off when she told us she wasnt bothered if she lost a grandchild(pregnant with finn and miscarried before).



 
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Old Nov 18th, 2012, 12:12 PM   12
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yeah i figure lifes to short to let someone else bring you down. I told mine that i expected at least as much courtesy and respect that she showed to strangers. Sadly people like that will just keep pulling you down if you you let them.



 
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Old Nov 18th, 2012, 14:45 PM   13
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we r still waiting for the one off when she told us she wasnt bothered if she lost a grandchild(pregnant with finn and miscarried before).
I am not sure I could forgive her for saying that. I would so give up pursuing her... I am stubborn like that though! Once you make up your mind to cut her out of your life, she will have no power over you anymore, you got to take the bull by the horns and not let her lead things anymore. I would be soooooo done with this woman!!!!!!!!!!!



 
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Old Nov 18th, 2012, 15:09 PM   14
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That was the day she ruined any relationship she could ever have with me. And she rarely bothers with finn. Ive never forgave her and that was the last time it all blew up. Its bn brewing n biulding up ever since. Well oh has cancelled tues meetin. And i doubt she will show at the christening in two wks. The best bit is she'll b sitting at home convincing herself how awful we are! I NEVER cry to my parents but my dad bless him told me were a fab family with 3 beautiful kids, im a brilliant mam n michael has a place in our family. He said to give up with her, keep my head held high and remember who and whats important.



 
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Old Nov 18th, 2012, 15:22 PM   15
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Can u believe oh is an only child and finn isla and lilly are the only grandkids she has.



 
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Old Nov 18th, 2012, 16:38 PM   16
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Well is been coming, you have a good man there. It's a million ones worse when he isn't supportive and sticking up for you, trust me, I've been there, to the point that my mil screamed at me I our leaving party when we moved away, I'll be glad to see the back of you, and he said and did nothing. All to keep the peace, which to me means siding with them.

Anyway, be proud of him even if he didn't handle it perfectly, he was on your side.

As for her, her loss, I am sure she will be angry and bitter but our have given her chances, and she does not learn, you think she could learn to even bet her tongue.

Your family don't need that stress. Xxxx



 
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