so i am the youngest of 5 children, my oldest sister and i are the only ones with kids. she has a 17 yr old and 14 yr old and an 11 yr old all boys and last yr the day i had my misscaraige she was having her 1st daughter gabbreil. and even tho i was in pain and devisated i was there for her at the hospital coaching her throug, and that night i ended up in the er where i was told i had to have a dnc, and she was happy that i lost the baby cuz she didnt want me to steal her thunder. And i waited a while before we tried again and to my surprise as you all know its twins
But she was running around to my other sister asking if i got pregos on purpose with twins! yeah cuz you can do that duh! and the whole time she has been telling me that their boys and that she hopes their boys that we dont need any more girls than gabby (whom i love dearly she is beautiful) and putting me down saying if i have girls everyone will forget about gabbs, then last wednesdsay i had a gender reveal party to let all know that their girls! aqnd she was so pissed and hurtful and my mother even took her aside and said to grow up she is 37 yrs old and im 24. But now she wont talk to me or let me see gabby even tho i threw her a baby shower ans spent a fortune on girl stuff for her baby she said she didnt even want to come to mine.
i cant beleive she is being so mean and hurtful i dont need the stress or worry and i wish she could just get over herself my brother seems to think its cuz she had her tubes tied when gabbs was born and now she cant have more children for attention so she is taking it out on me for having 2 at once, ugh and then the other day she is like you going to have your tubes tied cuz 4 is plenty for you and i thought uh oyu have 4 and the only reason you got your tubes tied is cuz mom said she wasnt paying for any more of her kids. even tho i am having my tubes done its cuz my husband and i made that chocie for us and its non of her bussines! i dont know guess im just venting
Hun you concentrate on your girls and don't let anything get you down. You don't need the negativity at the moment. My sisters are all very supportive, but mymDH's sister sounds alot like yours. She has one daugher, whereas I have three boys, and she's very jealous of me as shes divorced from her husband and says she won't be having another relationship or kids. She's horrible to me, and mot very nice to her nephews, in fact she hasn't seen them or spoken to us for nearly a year. But I've decided that she's just not worth getting upset over. I lead my life, and let her lead hers. I don't mix with her any,ore, and I ignore anything I hear she's said. Congrats on your girls. X
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