Forum Rules


Reply
 
LinkBack Thread Tools Search this Thread
Old Jun 13th, 2018, 08:13 AM   37831
DobbyForever
Mum (Mom)
BnB Elite
 
 
Join Date: Sep 2013
Location: SF Bay, California
Posts: 13,509
Future when it does that I take a screenshot



 
Status: Offline
 
Old Jun 13th, 2018, 09:58 AM   37832
claireybell
Mum (Mom)
BnB Addict
 
 
Join Date: Sep 2011
Location: Hampshire, UK
Posts: 6,170
My Dad used to smack mine & my older sisters bottom (bare) & f**k me it hurt! I hated him for it & he slapped my sister round the face when she was 16 because he didnt like her grungy/goth thing that she was into & thought she should be a girly girl & set example to younger sisters & then she left our home & squatted for 2 yrs, my Dad had mental health issues im sure as he was always chatting & muttering to himself, by the time my younger sister was old enough, the bathroon door had a lock on it so she used to lock herself in there lol but we were never really naughty but my Dad just lost his temper easy! I smack Rileys bottom but not bare & send him to his room no tv etc if he’s really being a butt but nah id hate to proper whack him, id ferl awful about it!

Ah Gigs im sure all is cooking nicely in there ive had 2 dreams re mc & they’re horrible.. i think its just our fears being raised



 
Status: Offline
 
Old Jun 13th, 2018, 10:00 AM   37833
claireybell
Mum (Mom)
BnB Addict
 
 
Join Date: Sep 2011
Location: Hampshire, UK
Posts: 6,170
Oh Dobs im so glad A’s temp broke, send him to nursery like you say, if hes ill while hes there, they’ll call you up



 
Status: Offline
 
Old Jun 13th, 2018, 10:13 AM   37834
bdb84
Mum (Mom)
Chat Happy BnB Member
 
 
Join Date: Nov 2013
Posts: 1,903
I was never spanked, either, but my mom was a screamer and sometimes I think that's worse. She was a great mom, but she was always stretched very thin between working full time night shift because my parents couldn't afford daycare and, as a result, not ever being able to sleep fitfully with three kids at home. It all changed once her parents moved to town and my grandmother was able to step in as a babysitter so she could actually work normal hours.

I won't say I've never spanked, but I very rarely do. The only times I ever have, have been because I was pushed to my limit and reacted out of anger. I've always apologized for it, but also try to explain to them why their behavior drove me to that extent. It's hard. For me, parenting a pre-teen has been the most challenging aspect of parenthood hands down. No one prepares you for that. You always hear about the lack of sleep that newborns bring, and the toddler tantrums, etc. Some days I feel I'd rather have three newborns to care for than a moody, overly emotional, pubescent 12 year old who thinks he's his own boss and what he says goes. But I love him to death.

A. I really hope things start looking up for you.



 
Status: Offline
 
Old Jun 13th, 2018, 10:32 AM   37835
gigglebox
Mum (Mom)
BnB Elite
 
 
Join Date: Aug 2010
Location: States
Posts: 10,569
Future where's the test???!!! Sometimes if you crop it down on your phone first that works.

Dobs I'm glad he's doing well enough to go to daycare. They say they're most contagious before symptoms so hopefully it'll be fine.

Bdb that hits home because I do yell more than I'd like. I really want to try not to...and I do try but my 6yo is a terrible listener! He will not listen unless I raise my voice. Though recently I've been saying things, like for example "turn off the tv", and he'll ignore me, then I'll say, "do you want me to yell?" And he'll say "NO!" Then turn it off. But I am trying to take responsibility for some of it, for example I get flustered and raise my voice in the morning when we're in a rush but it's really my fault for not getting us all up earlier to give us more time.

Thanks cb I'm sure it's just my fears...this is the longest I've gone without an ultrasound. Regarding your dad do you have a relationship with him now? Does your sister?

I told a couple of friends today about the pregnancy. They are excited doe mw and it was SO nice to finally have people be happy, not surprised, and not commenting on how soon it is. One did ask if it was intentional but I expected her to ask haha. But no asking where I'm going to put it or how I'll manage...hust pure excitement, my one friend even said she is jealous and wants a third (her husband is vehemently opposed because they don't have help from family).



 
Status: Offline
 
Old Jun 13th, 2018, 10:46 AM   37836
FutureMrs
Pregnant (Expecting)
Active BnB Member
 
Join Date: Oct 2015
Posts: 605
Okay now that I look again Iím sure itís negative, but here we are!



Attached Images
File Type: jpg E2C6E32A-B619-42E6-BEAD-D3FBDCA3D0A7.jpg (20.1 KB, 21 views)
 
Status: Offline
 
Old Jun 13th, 2018, 10:51 AM   37837
claireybell
Mum (Mom)
BnB Addict
 
 
Join Date: Sep 2011
Location: Hampshire, UK
Posts: 6,170
Future screen shot the pic on your phone & then upload, I remember Dobby said that once & it works do it via the reply below, ĎGo Advancedí theres an attachment bit on there



 
Status: Offline
 
Old Jun 13th, 2018, 10:51 AM   37838
claireybell
Mum (Mom)
BnB Addict
 
 
Join Date: Sep 2011
Location: Hampshire, UK
Posts: 6,170
Future i can see a really light hazey colour line eeeee!!!



 
Status: Offline
 
Old Jun 13th, 2018, 10:58 AM   37839
claireybell
Mum (Mom)
BnB Addict
 
 
Join Date: Sep 2011
Location: Hampshire, UK
Posts: 6,170
Ahh such good reactions from friends re your pg Gigs

Ohhhh i do raise my voice ALOT & Rileys exactly the sane as Des is Gigs.. very frustrating!! I feel like i shouldn’t have to completely lose my s**t to get him to do anything.. esp while pg! SO had a firm word with him the other day but we’ll see how long good behaviour lasts lol

Unfortunately our Dad passed away in July 2015, he had senile dementia & type 2 Diabetes which im sure contributed to his passing as his heart was very tired looking according to the coroner, sorry to be morbid. He was nearly 78 & he had a happy life i guess & at 78 thats good innings as they say



 
Status: Offline
 
Old Jun 13th, 2018, 10:59 AM   37840
claireybell
Mum (Mom)
BnB Addict
 
 
Join Date: Sep 2011
Location: Hampshire, UK
Posts: 6,170
Strangely, Future as you’ve laid the test strip on the test wrapper, it has a lil arrow that says control line just where u laid the test, at the point of the arrow is where I can see the hazey line



 
Status: Offline
 

SEO by vBSEO