Babylights and Kalico- what's happening girls!! I really want to hear about two BFPs!!!
So this month I think we are going to relax a little and maybe try the SMEP! Have you guys heard about this or tried it?
I think since my cycles are short and I O early, we will start BD every other day after AF ends. And then when I get my first positive OPK we will BD every day for three days. Then skip one day and BD again.
Hi jmack! I've read about smep and it sounds like a solid plan! I wanted to try this past month but we couldn't bc we moved, had my mom staying with us...so not ideal. I'm so excited for you! I was way more relaxed this past month and it feels sooooo much nicer. Although I'm supposed to test tmrw and I'm so so nervous. I had an interesting night last night that I feel like was implantation, I wrote it out in the Feb testers thread but you prob didn't see it or it doesn't sound that exciting to anyone but me - *is this thing on??* L O L
hahaha babylights!! I'm going to go read it. Your chart is still looking great, I am so excited for you!! When are you going to test tomorrow? Keep in mind it is still a little early so if it isn't a BFP you are still in it!
Agreed- relaxing about it sounds like a good plan no matter what
hahaha thanks jmack! I actually didn't temp this morning, wasn't planning to anyway but basically got two minutes of sleep so would've been a bust regardless. I really might chicken out of testing and just wait it out. We're going out of town tomorrow to go to a wedding and then head to Vegas for my bday so don't really wanna ruin my day earlier than necessary lol I'm turning advanced maternal age +1 so it's already not that good of a time ha!
also - have you considered using Softcups? We tried that for the first time and I really feel like it upped our chances. It also takes the pressure off if you're not up to bd'ing on a day you're supposed to. I also made sure to *ahem* finish each time after the Softcup was in so the cervix would dip into it and grab the goods! Just thought I'd share bc I feel like it helped! I know it's early days yet but I have such a good feeling for you!!!
Ah you are so sweet!! I have a great feeling for you too love. I didn't test early this past month for the first time ever, and even though AF arrived, for some reason it seemed easier than seeing a BFN. Just my two cents but everyone is different!
So how do soft cups work? You just put them in after BD? Maybe I'll look into it!!
I hope you have a wonderful trip and have a blast in Vegas! What day is your birthday!?? I have all my fingers and toes crossed for you. I think the night you had last night sounds like a real intuitive sign. I am so excited.
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