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Old Dec 29th, 2017, 16:54 PM   1
Carlee
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A prolonged TWW alone


I guess I just need to share what's going on.
I got married about 18 months ago but my husband has never moved in. It's been the source of many an argument between us.
So about 3 weeks ago he begged me to give him 1 last chance. I did. He said he really wanted a baby so we decided to TTC right away since he got here during my fertile period.
The timing was as good as it could be without temping, we BD'd for 3 days with my estimated O day right in the middle (based on cm).
We had a silly little argument and he the slipped away during the night.
That was 2 weeks ago.
At 9dpo (estimated) I got pink cm when I wiped then nothing until the next day I had light brown cm for a few hrs then nothing. I am now an estimated 16dpo (litterally just, it's midnight here) and no AF but feeling dizzy, nauseous, gassy etc. Plus my cats are treating me weird...
I am going to test later today or tomorrow, or both.
My husband is answereing my texts some days, other days not. I told him what was going on, that there is a chance I am pregnant but he won't reply or answer the phone.
I feel shell-shocked and so utterly alone.



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Old Dec 30th, 2017, 13:36 PM   2
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That is awful! I don't understand why he wouldn't move in after marrying you. The fact that he's not calling or returning texts is such a bad sign. I'm so sorry.

It sounds like there is a good chance you may be pregnant. Have you tested yet?



 
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Old Dec 31st, 2017, 06:12 AM   3
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Ah bless you sweet, this sounds awful for you.

I hope he pulls his finger out and you get this sorted.

Good luck for your BFP xx



 
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Old Dec 31st, 2017, 07:23 AM   4
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Thanks guys.
AF is still a no show and my symptoms persist. I had ordered some hpts but they didn't arrive and everything is closed here until Tuesday.
Hubby is still not responding 😟



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Old Dec 31st, 2017, 08:08 AM   5
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I'm sorry your husband still isn't responding I can't believe he's treating you like this



 
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Old Dec 31st, 2017, 15:47 PM   6
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I'm not sure I'd still bother calling him my husband. I went through something similar, and it was all kinds of bad, hun.

I hope your tests get in early!



 
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Old Jan 1st, 2018, 03:51 AM   7
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Still no AF
Husband finally replied. He's in Algeria.



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Old Jan 1st, 2018, 04:04 AM   8
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I'm glad he's finally replied.



 
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Old Jan 1st, 2018, 07:41 AM   9
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He doesn't seem to care about my possible pregnancy though.
I think it best I walk away, however sad and scary that may be.



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Old Jan 1st, 2018, 07:48 AM   10
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It sounds like it might be for the best



 
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