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Old Jun 12th, 2018, 23:08 PM   1
Tryin1501
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TTC with older man


Hi there! Iím 31 and he is 53. This would be my first and his second after 19 years. He has a 19 year old. Currently on 5th month of trying. Due to start period tomorrow but hoping I donít.



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Old Jun 12th, 2018, 23:09 PM   2
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Would appreciate any info, insight, others wo I similar situations, General convo



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Old Jun 13th, 2018, 01:41 AM   3
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Eeee, wishing you a bfp this month love. Male fertility doesnít generally decline with age if theyíre in good shape/health. Are you using opks, bbt etc?

We just used preseed this month after 5 months and it got us our bfp

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Old Jun 13th, 2018, 15:12 PM   4
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My daughters dad was 18 years older than me and we basically got pregnant by accident, after only knowing each other a few months.. it was a rebound thing. Wasnít meant to happen but I wouldnít change her for the world.
Good luck ❤️



 
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Old Jun 13th, 2018, 15:35 PM   5
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Old Jun 14th, 2018, 00:26 AM   6
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Thank you! What is BBT? I used ovulation kits the first two months and I ovulate 14 days past ovulation but then have a short luteal phase. My cycle is only 25 days. I’ll have to look in to this pre-seed! I have been trying 5 months and thinking I’m about to start AF. So was going to try the mucous thinner this next time. Thank you! And congrats on the BFP!



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Old Jun 14th, 2018, 00:29 AM   7
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My daughters dad was 18 years older than me and we basically got pregnant by accident, after only knowing each other a few months.. it was a rebound thing. Wasnít meant to happen but I wouldnít change her for the world.
Good luck ❤️

Thank you for the info! Good to know! is the Co-parenting going ok? I donít have any friends in my situation of being with an older guy so just curious of a different perspective



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Old Jun 14th, 2018, 04:13 AM   8
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Thank you! What is BBT? I used ovulation kits the first two months and I ovulate 14 days past ovulation but then have a short luteal phase. My cycle is only 25 days. Iíll have to look in to this pre-seed! I have been trying 5 months and thinking Iím about to start AF. So was going to try the mucous thinner this next time. Thank you! And congrats on the BFP!
Basel body temping - you can pick up the appropriate thermometer on amazon as too the preseed - itís basically a lube thatís just like your cervical mucus and aids the sperm getting to egg! So if you donít have great ewcm ( egg white cervical mucus) this is a great product! Best of luck xx



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Old Jun 14th, 2018, 06:37 AM   9
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Thank you for the info! Good to know! is the Co-parenting going ok? I donít have any friends in my situation of being with an older guy so just curious of a different perspective
Anytime He has a bit of a shady past that, again, because it was so quick & unexpected I didnít know at the time so that can get in the way. We donít really get along that well now if Iím honest. werenít you testing today?!



 
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Old Jun 14th, 2018, 17:52 PM   10
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Eeee, wishing you a bfp this month love. Male fertility doesnít generally decline with age if theyíre in good shape/health. Are you using opks, bbt etc?

We just used preseed this month after 5 months and it got us our bfp

Xx
I did get BBT for this next go around. Started my period today so will be trying again soon



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