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Old Oct 31st, 2011, 09:19 AM   1
Crazy4Baby
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sis had to end her pregnancy


On Wednesday my younger sis went in for her 12 week scan. She was told that the baby had water on its brain and it would not survive before its born. They had to make the agonising decision to end her pregnancy which meant her having to deliver the 13 week old baby on Saturday.

I feel so sad right now, and guilty because I was so jealous she got pregnant before me and she was also on the pill when it happened.

I am now 27 dpo and af hasnt arrived. I havent tested for around 11-12 days and am now too scared to after what my sis has been through.
I dont feel pregnant, with my two pregnancies before I knew I was before I even tested.

Sorry for the rant, just feeling really emotional right now



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Old Oct 31st, 2011, 09:26 AM   2
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Awe Hun. I'm so sorry that's happened to your sister, that's terrible. You really must be strong for her.

I hope you get your bfp soon. Xxxx



 
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Old Oct 31st, 2011, 11:50 AM   3
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I'm sorry that you're going through this. It was normal to be jealous, especially considering the circumstances sweetie! Just think that you'll get your bfp soon and can still be there for your sister.

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Old Oct 31st, 2011, 14:14 PM   4
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Oh hun, I didn't want to read and run, I'm so sorry for your sister, I can't imagine the pain she's going through, you too. Sending you all squidgy hugs xxx



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Old Oct 31st, 2011, 14:40 PM   5
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Good luck to you and your sis. Sorry to hear about her loss.



 
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Old Oct 31st, 2011, 14:42 PM   6
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Oh no, that's so difficult. I wish you the best of luck when you test and your sister and your family are in my thoughts.



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Old Oct 31st, 2011, 14:52 PM   7
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Oh that's horrible. Sorry for the loss.
No-one can predict these things so don't feel bad for initially feeling jealous, you couldn't help it.



 
Old Oct 31st, 2011, 14:59 PM   8
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Ah so sorry to hear this, you don't need to feel guilty. I hope you're ok x



 
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Old Oct 31st, 2011, 15:54 PM   9
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I'm sorry hun, that must of been a horrible decision for her to make :'( Be strong for her, forget any past feeling, focus on the present. I'm sure one day you will both have bouncing babies *hugs* my thoughts are with you all at this time :'(



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Old Oct 31st, 2011, 18:01 PM   10
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So sorry.



 
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