Frustrated that I never get Early BFP

crazycoolmom · Mar 19th, 2012, 20:14 PM

So I'm 8 dpo and trust me, a late 12 dpo bfp is better than no bfp at all. But I'm frustrated because I feel the same exact way that I felt last time i was pregnant. Sadly I miscarried that one but even then I didn't get a bfp until 12 dpo.

How do ladies that get a bfp that early do it? Ihave been testing like a crazy person since 6 dpo and the mistily got is nothing. Please give me some tips that maybe I missed.

Symptoms are metallic taste in mouth, headaches, heartburn, stabbing and poking in left side of uterus, excessive bms (not diarrhea), frequent urination, gas, back painans af type cramps and soreness, and today fatigue, lost all energy after fixing breakfast and now I'm irritable.

blueskies · Mar 19th, 2012, 21:15 PM

Some women don't get BFP's until weeks after their period is late - don't fret. If you're pregnant, sooner or later you WILL get a positive

at least you're receiving one, right??

good luck, and fx'ed for you

crazycoolmom · Mar 19th, 2012, 22:51 PM

Thanks so much. Goodluck to you as well.

AndreaFlorida · Mar 19th, 2012, 23:03 PM

Be blessed your able to get

not all of us are so lucky!

Mrs_Nesbit · Mar 20th, 2012, 06:42 AM

To be fair, I wish I'd waited now. Instead I tested yesterday morning. I should be elated but I then went on to read some dodgy reviews about the test I'd used. Those predictor early test jobbies. Can't get my hands on another different test till later tonight, but I'm absolutely terrified I got a false positive or something now and that AF will arrive soon. OH is so damn elated and I'm scared of letting him down.

cookiemomma82 · Mar 20th, 2012, 10:50 AM

I am in the same boat! word for word. I want to see that BFP so i dont feel so crazy the way i been acting and feeling this month. I just want to see it. and My husband is, it will happen when it happens. Ugh soooo not what i want to hear. I just want this all to make sense and see it already. Hard to wait these two weeks... hows my 9 months gonna go HAHA

lisap2008 · Mar 20th, 2012, 11:22 AM

According to Fertility friend 14dpo is still the average for the first BFP.
http://www.fertilityfriend.com/Faqs/...ats-Study.html

Inoue · Mar 20th, 2012, 11:27 AM

I was 18 DPO when i finally got a BFP on the first pregnancy, then 12DPO on second and now 10DPO on third. TBH, i think id rather not know now as im barely 4 weeks gone and now i know ive got AGES to wait till scan and every 5 mins i think AF is going to arrive! All the best with upcoming BFP! Id test between 12-14DPO in a perfect world

Shey · Mar 20th, 2012, 11:36 AM

You will get your bfp. Not everyone gets one that early, some of us never got a bfp till we were 3 months along. So don't worry.

onebumpplease · Mar 20th, 2012, 14:16 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Shey

You will get your bfp. Not everyone gets one that early, some of us never got a bfp till we were 3 months along. So don't worry.

Shey were you 3 months along when you got your BFP? If so were you testing during that time, or had you been to the docs?

Mar 19th, 2012, 20:14 PM	#1
crazycoolmom Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2011 Posts: 513	Frustrated that I never get Early BFP So I'm 8 dpo and trust me, a late 12 dpo bfp is better than no bfp at all. But I'm frustrated because I feel the same exact way that I felt last time i was pregnant. Sadly I miscarried that one but even then I didn't get a bfp until 12 dpo. How do ladies that get a bfp that early do it? Ihave been testing like a crazy person since 6 dpo and the mistily got is nothing. Please give me some tips that maybe I missed. Symptoms are metallic taste in mouth, headaches, heartburn, stabbing and poking in left side of uterus, excessive bms (not diarrhea), frequent urination, gas, back painans af type cramps and soreness, and today fatigue, lost all energy after fixing breakfast and now I'm irritable.

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Mar 19th, 2012, 21:15 PM	#2
blueskies Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Posts: 202	Some women don't get BFP's until weeks after their period is late - don't fret. If you're pregnant, sooner or later you WILL get a positive at least you're receiving one, right?? good luck, and fx'ed for you

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Mar 19th, 2012, 22:51 PM	#3
crazycoolmom Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2011 Posts: 513	Thanks so much. Goodluck to you as well.

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Mar 19th, 2012, 23:03 PM	#4
AndreaFlorida Other BnB Elite Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Florida Posts: 11,449	Be blessed your able to get not all of us are so lucky!

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Mar 20th, 2012, 06:42 AM	#5
Mrs_Nesbit Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: UK Posts: 737	To be fair, I wish I'd waited now. Instead I tested yesterday morning. I should be elated but I then went on to read some dodgy reviews about the test I'd used. Those predictor early test jobbies. Can't get my hands on another different test till later tonight, but I'm absolutely terrified I got a false positive or something now and that AF will arrive soon. OH is so damn elated and I'm scared of letting him down.

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Mar 20th, 2012, 10:50 AM	#6
cookiemomma82 Trying to conceive (TTC) New BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: Montana Posts: 6	I am in the same boat! word for word. I want to see that BFP so i dont feel so crazy the way i been acting and feeling this month. I just want to see it. and My husband is, it will happen when it happens. Ugh soooo not what i want to hear. I just want this all to make sense and see it already. Hard to wait these two weeks... hows my 9 months gonna go HAHA

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Mar 20th, 2012, 11:22 AM	#7
lisap2008 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: May 2011 Location: Oregon Posts: 1,111	According to Fertility friend 14dpo is still the average for the first BFP. http://www.fertilityfriend.com/Faqs/...ats-Study.html

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Mar 20th, 2012, 11:27 AM	#8
Inoue Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2010 Location: Lincolnshire, UK Posts: 1,955	I was 18 DPO when i finally got a BFP on the first pregnancy, then 12DPO on second and now 10DPO on third. TBH, i think id rather not know now as im barely 4 weeks gone and now i know ive got AGES to wait till scan and every 5 mins i think AF is going to arrive! All the best with upcoming BFP! Id test between 12-14DPO in a perfect world

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Mar 20th, 2012, 11:36 AM	#9
Shey Trying to conceive (TTC) BnB Addict Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: Apopka,Florida Posts: 5,131	You will get your bfp. Not everyone gets one that early, some of us never got a bfp till we were 3 months along. So don't worry.

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