1) How long is it going to take for those of us who have never had a BFP to actually GET one!?

2) Who knows what the problem is for some of us. Maybe it wasn't a healthy enough sperm. Maybe it wasn't a healthy enough egg. Maybe both. Maybe it was a super healthy sperm AND egg and the kid would have been a beautiful person and it just didn't implant correctly, so it got washed out. Maybe our bodies don't want to implant our babies.

3) I'm sick of the disappointment every month. I just want to see 2 lines. I don't want a bfn, I don't want a pregnancy test with one bright pink line and then an imaginary line I have to squint to see. I want the real deal. I want to see those lines and bawl my eyes out due to happiness. I want to have a baby with my husband, to start our little family and be the happiest woman ever.

4) I don't want to be jealous of other pregnant women. I try not to be, but I am. 2-3 new announcements every week doesn't make for an easy week, ever. What's even worse is the girls complaining about it. I would have gladly had the positive pregnancy test and given them my negative. Why does the world work out this way!?

5) I'm sick of a new symptom appearing every month, googling it, and finding out every person that had it was pregnant that month...except me. This month it was the burning/tingling/stinging sensation in my uterus. It occurred for 3-4 hours last night, atleast, along with some pokes and prods...yet I take a pregnancy test and it's negative. I'm still not "out" but I know I am inside. My period is due in 2 days because my luteal phase is 11 days long. I just know this isn't my month, that's why I'm sick and tired of a new symptom every month that tricks me!!!

Feel free to add your rants!!

Hugs!

I'm sorry and I wanted to let you know I feel your pain. Number 4 is the one that always gets me. DH and I know a couple who just had a baby. The only thing she did the entire time she was pregnant was b*tch! I wanted to punch her in the throat. On top of that fact she wasn't on any kind of birth control (just assumed since she only had a 20% chance each month it wouldn't happen) and when she got pregnant actually wanted an abortion. I wanted to tell her that so many women would love to be in her situation and that she was so selfish to actual think of doing anything like that. (Sidenote that I am not against abortion because it's the woman's choice, but seriously if you aren't going to take any precautions then I think you should have to live with the consequences).

I hope you both get your BFP this month, I can't really moan as its my first TTC but I can imagine it being difficult baby dust all round

P.s punch in throat made me giggle haha I know someone who is pregnant all she does is moan constantly and acts like her life is an utter mess, pathetic there are women out there that would move heaven on earth to be in her position !! Bitch lol sorry rant over

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all of this! im right there with you, i could have written this post myself...every month dtd every day, then trying every other day because someone did that and it happened for them...or trying different opks, or buying a fertility monitor...hitting the day before O, hitting two days before...the day of..and still...nothing...ive never even had an "evil evap"...FRER or IC or otherwise (the temptation to buy some blue dye tests just to see the second line is overwhelming lol)...just snow white tests...and feeling like a failure each and every time AF shows up, even though you had a nice dark line on your IC opk, and did all the right things at all the right times....