Can't stop crying dont even want to try anymore :""""(
Been trying going on 7 months now we are Doin everything right I really thought this was my month as I had the so called "IB" on 6-7DPO bb's real sore and have been really tired. AF due Sunday 4/15. Took 2 tests sat 4/7 and Sunday 4/8 both BFN (what else is new) now today I wake up an bb's aren't sore anymore which usually happens 2-3 days before AF comes. :""""( I just can't take it anymore it's so depressin every month and of course none of my friends understand because they all have babies or are currently prego and of course ha no problems TTC :"""( I don't even wan to try anymore :""( anyone else feel tho way?
I'm sorry I know it's tough. I'm only on my 2nd cycle TTC but I still know how you feel. Just keep your head up and think positive (easier said than done). I know we all want out babies so bad but try to make TTC with your DH fun and thi k about how it's bringing you closer. Treat yourself to a small purchase or mani/pedi after each cycle to. Here you up. And think about how ecstatic you will be when you get your BFP and how much more you'll love your baby! GL!
I'm so sorry hun that you are feeling so sad and defeated. I understand how you feel believe me. I've been trying since last September. I got pregnant in December, only to suffer an early MC . I'm trying to be optimistic this cycle as I just want a baby so badly. And you are soo right...it certainly doesn't help matters when it seems like everyone else around you is pregnant. I actually quit FB altogether because I got tired of all of the pregnancy announcements . The worse part is many of my firends got pregnant without even really trying .
I know things suck right now. Just know that you are not alone and try to stay positive. Fx'd that you will get a very soon . Sending you lots of
Big hugs for being sad - but do remember that you're not even due AF yet and tests don't generally show positive before then - so you still could be!!!
Plus I've read LOADS of stories of women who have had absolutely no symptoms the month they turn out bfp.
But have some more hugs anyway, I've been pretty crazy the last few days, and I totally sympathise.
mimi1979... my husband and i got a BFP and lost the baby a week later, it's devistating!
Angel073... most women only ovulate once every 3 months, unless you're like 14! Even when you ovulate there's a slim chance. My husband and I never used protection, and have sex pretty much every time we see each other. We were together for almost a year when we finally conceived! As long as you're ovulating and your man has sperm it will happen, trust me!
don't stress yourself out, and take folic acid everyday to up your chances of ovulating. =) ps, most cereal has about 50%!
Hey Angel073 - completely with you on all levels.
I am now 14DPO and absolutely nothing. BFN every day and now I'm getting AF pains and am hot as hell.
Sick to death of the whole thing and the emotional roller coaster that goes with it. The only thing that stops me from hanging up my hat for good is that I know I don't want to face a life without a child of my own.
It's hard but try and take support from the forum.
I've found it really helpful - and have realised I have a lot to learn.
I hear ya....ill be on my 4th cycle...last june we had a M/C at around 10 weeks..for this last 3 cycles i was temping...charting using opk's also concieve plus...we are just gonna take a more relaxing approach...since this way i thought id get preggo sooner..lol didnt happen...so id rather just go back to the less stressful way. We shall see:-)
Good luck ladies! to all.
pinkplague...So sorry to hear about your MC. The same thing happened with me and DH. Found out I was pregnant on a Friday only to lose our baby the following Friday. You are right...it's very devastating.
Smooch...So sorry to hear about your MC as well. It is such a terrible ordeal that no one should go through. I commend you for taking a more relaxed approach. DH and I decided that if we don't get a BFP this cycle, we are going to take a more relaxed approach as well.
TTC is such an emotional rollercoaster!!! Also sending lots of to all.
Yeah id rather just not treat my husband as a sperm bank anymore Lmao!
When we decided last year to start a family we concieved in 3 months...tht was with out knowing when i ovulated or any of tht stuff lol i just hoped to get this going quick...im 30 and would like to get the show on the road haha
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