Hi everyone ok so I am currently either 13DPO or 10DPO. I don't know as Fertility Friend has just changed my O day from CD 13 to CD 16. I had written myself off but now I am just plain confused. I try really hard to not be a symptom spotter but this is really doing my head in.

AF was due today and I had a small amount of spotting but nothing since but cramps still. I was SO sure I was out because of all the cramping but now I don't know. I need to get this down in words, have a look and see what you would think cos im so torn, If I knew when my period was due %100 I would just wait and wouldn't be posting this but I have no idea now where I am at !

Ok so what makes me think im NOT pregnant is:

-The cramps I have had for the last 5 days exactly like last cycle they seem to painful to be normal for implantation
-My temp following the same pattern as last cycle, Drop then rise on my AF due day
-Lack of a decent rise in temps
-Lack of sore boobs (they do hurt on and off but not much)
-Light pink spotting on 3 occasions first thing in the morning (only when I push tp up though) and so close to my AF due date
-All the BFNS I have got, at 13DPO I would expect to see something on a 10miu test (unless I did ovulate CD16 but I kinda doubt that)

What makes me think that I am pregnant

-The vivid dreams I have been having for the last week
-I feel quite sick in my stomach today
-My cervix is still high
-Lack of period (although they are really light anyway, tomorrow will be more of an indication unless I did ovulate on CD 16)
-Fatigued and feeling a bit spacey

What do you ladies think ? be totally honest if you think there are things that I should just ignore or things that you think I should or shouldn't be reading in to ? and I know this whole post is totally crazy I just need some advice !

i had SUPER severe cramps when i was preggo with my son -- i actually thought there might be something wrong with my kidneys for a day or two because of how much it hurt, even into my back. i wouldn't use cramps as something to rule out a BFP.. i hope the witch is nowhere to be found, good luck!