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Old Sep 28th, 2013, 04:13 AM   31
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It's amazing you would ask that Shudknow.... as I had a slight accident in the middle of the night! This is the 3rd time in the year that this has happened. I may have to ring my consultant and ask.

On another note... I have got my date for my laparoscopy already!! It's on 30th October!! I can't believe how quickly they've got me in! Will have to stop my pill in a couple of days ready for the op. Not looking forward to withdrawal symptoms!



 
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Old Sep 28th, 2013, 04:15 AM   32
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I wish OH would allow us to TTC earlier, sooner after the op. I'm scared that by the time we start trying, endo will be back and it will be harder to concieve. I voiced my concerns and he said "It'll just have to be harder then"



 
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Old Sep 28th, 2013, 05:56 AM   33
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Great for the lap date and sucks about ur oh. But bare in mind its not always harder some people get years of relief from endo after surgery so u may well be one of those xx



 
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Old Sep 28th, 2013, 09:50 AM   34
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Thanks, I am a bit of a worrier!! Always thinking of the worst case scenarios!



 
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Old Sep 30th, 2013, 15:25 PM   35
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Emiloo, In a way I am glad that they were able to get you in so early..Oct 30th is not far away at all. I hope it all turns out ok.

Regarding your OH, I am sure it must be hard on you but I think it shows that he is not "ready" for TTC right now..it sucks but you will just have to wait for him to turn around on his own.

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Old Oct 1st, 2013, 14:21 PM   36
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Yeah, it's just hard waiting for him... we've been together for over 4 years now. He's a practical man and wont feel ready until we're settled into our house. He does make sense though. He thinks with his head, I think with my heart!



 
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Old Oct 1st, 2013, 15:37 PM   37
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My oh was like that, he didn't want us to try until we move because we don't live in a fantastic area but I think after I spoke whole heartedly to him about it and he really saw what it meant to me he changed his mind. But he didn't change it until after I started zoladex so he knew he had 6 months to get used to it. Have u set a future TTC date at all?? Xx



 
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Old Oct 2nd, 2013, 01:45 AM   38
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Yeah, he just doesnt want to make his life any harder than it already is, and I also dont want to have a baby while were still living at our parents houses- I just get irrational sometimes! I suggested january 2015 so that gives us 6 months ish before TTC in our new house and and a babyless year and a half to do up the house. He said "that sounds about right, Ill nearly be 26 by the time we TTC" so were getting there!



 
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Old Oct 2nd, 2013, 01:56 AM   39
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Aw Jan 15 isn't so bad. And if ur having ur lap almost November that's only a couple of months so ur in that time frame of it being more likely.

Men don't like change lol. I reasoned with my oh that he would get more sex while TTC and when I'm pregnant I wouldn't steal his beer LOL it worked xx



 
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Old Oct 31st, 2013, 10:44 AM   40
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Well, I had my laparoscopy yesterday! It took me ages to wake from the op properly and to come back to the ward. The doctor said he wanted me to stay overnight as I had alot of endo under my uterus and going up my tube to my kidney. If it was left any longer, it would have blocked it off!

Im home now and rather achey and tired... Im just so glad that its been sorted!



 
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