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Old Feb 20th, 2016, 15:49 PM   21
Andi86
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My first BFP I was so excited. My DH and I had been trying for 6 months. My DH was at work so I went to the store and bought pacifier. My dog was our baby at the time so when hubby came home I gave my dog the soother in her mouth and said to her "show daddy what we bought today! Bring it to him" she carried it over to him. When he saw what it was he had a confused look on his face until he figured it out. He smiled and said "really?" I was shaking as I was showing him the test. It was such a good moment....sadly it didn't end well. The next day and days to follow my BFP started to fade on the other tests until it disappeared completely. Ended up losing the baby so my joy was very short lived. We had troublea after that conceiving. I ended up being diagnosed with PCOS and eventually taking fermara to conceive. The 2nd month on it I had an appointment with my fertility doctor that day. I was only 10dpo but figured what the hell I'll test even though I thought it would be way to early to show anything. To my surprise there was a very faint line. I was excited an scared to loose the baby again. I told my hubby right away this time by showing him the test but told him it was very early so not to get his hopes up. I was very cautious and nervous to be happy about being pregnant up until 11 weeks pregnant when I had my first ultrasound. Once I saw and heard that little heart beating during the ultrasound I felt a huge relief. It was the most amazing thing. I now have a happy and healthy 14 month old. I'm hoping to get to experience it all again soon.



 
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Old Feb 21st, 2016, 19:27 PM   22
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My first BFP I was so excited. My DH and I had been trying for 6 months. My DH was at work so I went to the store and bought pacifier. My dog was our baby at the time so when hubby came home I gave my dog the soother in her mouth and said to her "show daddy what we bought today! Bring it to him" she carried it over to him. When he saw what it was he had a confused look on his face until he figured it out. He smiled and said "really?" I was shaking as I was showing him the test. It was such a good moment....sadly it didn't end well. The next day and days to follow my BFP started to fade on the other tests until it disappeared completely. Ended up losing the baby so my joy was very short lived. We had troublea after that conceiving. I ended up being diagnosed with PCOS and eventually taking fermara to conceive. The 2nd month on it I had an appointment with my fertility doctor that day. I was only 10dpo but figured what the hell I'll test even though I thought it would be way to early to show anything. To my surprise there was a very faint line. I was excited an scared to loose the baby again. I told my hubby right away this time by showing him the test but told him it was very early so not to get his hopes up. I was very cautious and nervous to be happy about being pregnant up until 11 weeks pregnant when I had my first ultrasound. Once I saw and heard that little heart beating during the ultrasound I felt a huge relief. It was the most amazing thing. I now have a happy and healthy 14 month old. I'm hoping to get to experience it all again soon.
How soon do you wanna try for baby #2?..glad your second BFP gave you DS



 
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Old Feb 22nd, 2016, 21:26 PM   23
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I'd be happy to get pregnant again right now. I'm just waiting for my cycles to return so I can TTC #2. I have yet to get a period which could be my PCOS or from breastfeeding.



 
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Old Feb 28th, 2016, 16:59 PM   24
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I found out at 10 DPO on New Year's Eve. I had what looked like a temp drop that morning and BFNs 7-9 DPO the days before. I was so sure I was out. I bought a new thermometer from Amazon (mine has been acting up), and a book on ttc. I wrote the first entry in my journal on here and cried a bit, thinking another cycle has come and gone. I went out to grab lunch and then made plans for dinner that night with a friend. I decided to poas to make sure I could have a drink at dinner. The feeling was more of shock and disbelief. I was so scared that I was just seeing things. I tried two other brands of ICs and all three had faint lines. I ran out and grabbed an frer and digital. Drank a ton of liquid so I could pee again and confirmed - pregnant 1-2! I messaged my BFF and my sister, and both were thrilled for me. When I picked up the tests, I also grabbed the book good night moon. I wrote a note in it, stuck the digital inside, and left it on the counter for DH to find. We hugged, and teared up (happy tears this time), and then went to dinner with our little secret keeping a smile on our lips the whole night.

I celebrated every day of that pregnancy, but sadly found out at 8+1 that our little gremlin stopped growing at 6+4. I'm not sure what the next BFP will feel like. It probably won't be quite as magical, but I've made a promise to myself to celebrate every day just like before.



 
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Old Mar 1st, 2016, 12:11 PM   25
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So sad about your first little one. It was good you did find out early though and celebrated the time you had. I know you will celebrate the second every moment every step. although a bit cautious at the same time



 
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Old Mar 1st, 2016, 12:38 PM   26
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My first bfp was a super surprise! I had started tracking my ovulation after not having a cycle for 8 months and being diagnosed with PCOS. I went on birth control, metformin and began my weight loss journey! By May of 2011, after I had fully come off the metformin, I totally forgot to take an opk during finals. Idk why but I took one 4 days before period and got a blazing positive. Honestly I thought with stress of finals I was just ovulating late, and did a quick google search. Saw the smallest chance of it detecting pregnancy and thought no way. Disregarded it, sure enough my period was missed and got a pregnant sign on a clear blue!! Happy tears all around even if it was unplanned. My second one I literally threw at my husband because while I don't regret my beautiful daughter, during said incident my husband literally said to me what are the odds you'll actually get pregnant lol both amazing moments and deserved to be felt by all who want them



 
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Old Mar 1st, 2016, 21:27 PM   27
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Yes I agree TanyaW, amazing and exciting moments. Are you going for a third? I can't wait for my first



 
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Old Mar 1st, 2016, 22:51 PM   28
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Sophima, yes! I was totally set with two. My husband has wanted another one all along. We are hoping for a boy, 3 girls certainly would make life interesting lol! When are you going to try for your first?



 
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Old Mar 2nd, 2016, 08:40 AM   29
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Ha I bet hubby wants a boy as he is now the only male. I want to start trying September of this year, I am so excited at the same time a little scared



 
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Old Mar 5th, 2016, 11:02 AM   30
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I didnt take many tests when trying for #1, maby 2 cycles out of 5.. maby 3. So not every time.
But when I got positive I got up realy early to test and just remember being glad. I had been expecting it since I felt different the few days before so it was not that surprising DH was still in bed and when I got in the room and said we got BFP he just got this lazy smile, eyes kind of still closed and lifted the blanet so I could crawl in and cuddle. Was similar with #2 but I was surprised then since it was first try. Always mixed feeling of glad, happy, o shits and what have I done haha



 
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