Hi to everyone that has joined! Sorry I kind of stopped coming here for a bit. DS is 20 months now and so so clingy. I've spent all day trying to get hI'm to nap in his crib that's never been an issue before. Right now, DH and I don't really have sex all that often. He works so much it's hard to find time. Now our house is being renovated due to water damage so I have no kitchen and we have to eat out. Certainly not healthy. But that will certainly be solved by July haha. I can feel when I ovulate so we just prevent if it's before and don't after. I go in this week to a pelvic floor pt to get my uterus back in place. I'm scared it'll fall out after another baby!
I went through a moment of not wanting another but I think I'd really regret not trying one more time.
Hi Mrs Hudson, no worries my life was getting very hectic too and I stopped visiting BnB for weeks at a time. I hope that DS gets over his clingy phase soon!
I have felt the same about DS and not wanting another but I think I would regret not trying too!
Beautiful photo of you and your son
I still have not gotten my period! That makes 13 months PP, 22 months altogether. I kind of miss it. I don't like taking pg tests regularly, seems a waste when I'm not trying to be pregnant right now! Hopefully I get my AF back soon, LO and I are cutting out our regular nighttime feedings.
How are you and your partner now Daisy? Better than in December?
I'm sorry about AF. That makes it hard. I got mine around 9 months pp when ds started sleeping better at night. Then my supply completely dried during my last pregnancy and he weaned. That was one of the hardest things for me but it's given me a new freedom and now I can work here and there without worrying about him. They say night weaning is the best way to get af back so give it a try. I think your lo is at a good age for it.
Well on good days I am hopeful but we still have our regular spats. I want our relationship to be better some days I just dont have the energy
The weaning seems like such a relief! DS is a booby baby for sure and nurses quite a lot in the day and still twice in the night I think. But he really gets a lot of comfort from it and is teething so I'm not going to make him suffer. When I have tried I get uncomfortably engorged I didn't realize this til I spent two nights away from him and had to pump through the night
Have you thought about counseling? I'm really sorry you're going through that. Relationship issues are the worst.
Yeah it's probably best not to do it now. DS was super easy and he was crazy about the boob too. It was very shocking that he was so ok with it. Engorgement sucks. I'm not sure if it's because I have small boobs are what but I didn't get that too much. I only made enough for him and that was it.
So I go in tomorrow to have my uterus massaged back into place. Should be interesting. Lol
I'm doing both because my problems are extensive. I got af a week and a half early this cycle so I couldn't start pt. I just saw the person doing the Mayan abdominal massage and she just did acupuncture. I need massage to put it back in place and pt to strengthen the muscles to keep it in place. My pelvic floor is a hot mess.
Aww I hope you enjoy your time alone with him!
DH finally said he wants another baby! I can't believe July is only a few months away! Hopefully I can get my issues sorted out first. My af is kind of weird because of the tilted uterus.
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