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Old May 4th, 2018, 13:32 PM   561
AliJo
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Keely - Woot! Lets hope that means I get my girl. I'm trying the rephresh although it'll get kind of costly if it doesn't happen soon. I don't know about where you are, but it's 15 dollars for 4!

My cycles have been a little longer.. not much. Pretty regular, though. Only issue is my luteal phase is a bit shorter than I expected. It's only 10 days and I'm not sure if that's what it was before or not because I never actually tracked ovulation. I just figured it was the average 14 days before.

Kaity - I'm doing well! Trying to keep busy and active. Trying to lose weight so that's my main focus right now. Figured I will fall pregnant when I fall pregnant.. just going to focus on losing weight and when I get that BFP I'll stop worrying about it for awhile! Although, I really really really want to keep the weight gain at a minimum.

Both my boys are doing well, as well! T tries to be such a big boy! O is going to school now. AEA decided to work on his "behaviors", but overall he's doing good.. he just has a couple of meltdowns a day generally. They're working on him with transitions. He just doesn't want to do what he doesn't want to do. He's very stubborn. It's a constant battle at home haha



 
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Old May 6th, 2018, 05:55 AM   562
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Still waiting on AF here. May will be the month of sleep training for our little girl so fx for June 😂



 
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Old May 20th, 2018, 22:51 PM   563
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Sleep training went sooo well. There was really no training at all. She was just ready. DD has been sleeping through the night in her own crib for the past week, and I’m starting to relax and relearn how to sleep through the night myself 🤣. Really hope this does the trick. Some of the girls from my July 2017 group in another forum are starting to ttc#2, and I’m feeling so jealous. It’s funny to dread something and yet want it all at once. I just can’t shake that desire to have my kids close in age.



 
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Old May 28th, 2018, 15:50 PM   564
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Ohh gosh so we here already & haven't really tried at all this month. Am really fine with it though as my hubby is still very nervous about trying for #2 as we're all so settled into our routine now.

So my AF is due early June so O is mid June, hubby's birthday & were away just the 2 if us for that weekend



 
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Old May 29th, 2018, 04:11 AM   565
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Hi ladies. Please could I join?!

Little back story for me:

Me and my DH have been together 12 years, married for 6 years. We have two girls (July 2009 and September 2012) we also had another baby in 2016 who we sadly lost at 15weeks. Since then DH has been dead set against anymore. Fast forward to 2018. My heart is physically hurting for another baby. I think my husband has been picking up on this. Last night I was sat in this trance like state in my own world of baby thinking. Hubby noticed something was wrong. He asked and asked what was wrong. I honestly told him “I don’t think I can talk about it with you, we will just argue”. His first question. “You want another baby don’t you”
I couldn’t hold back, I spilled my heart out to him and to my surprise he said “I’m not saying no, just not yet.”

We are going out tonight on a date as the girls are staying his mums. So hopefully we can talk more. Last night he stated there needs to be a few things completed in our life before another baby comes along. But we are officially waiting to try!! Unknown date though!!

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Old May 30th, 2018, 12:24 PM   566
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Awwwwww! Welcome Lilysmom2! So glad he was receptive to your feelings!!!! Hope you're able to TTC soon!



 
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Old May 30th, 2018, 12:27 PM   567
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Oh wow! I didn't realize I put May 2018 as my WTT date! Just saw the list for May HAHA! Currently waiting for to arrive.... if she arrives... She's due today or tomorrowish. We sort of NTNP'd this month (or should I just say we weren't careful?? haha). We'll see!!!



 
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Old May 30th, 2018, 13:56 PM   568
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Awwwwww! Welcome Lilysmom2! So glad he was receptive to your feelings!!!! Hope you're able to TTC soon!
Thanks hunni. I feel like I’m getting mixed messages from him. He says everything is so good and calm. The girls have been extra good just recently (they told me secretly this so that daddy will agree to a baby, turns out they want another just as bad as me) hubby just got in. I said how well they have behaved and he turned around and said “see that’s what I meant earlier by everything’s so good. Why change it”

My heart feels shattered because I just know what’s coming. I’m gonna do his tea and then go to bed and just cry. I really don’t want to talk to him tonight. I feel like he was just playing the nice guy the other day just to keep me happy.

Also my daughter has told me “daddy must have told nanny (his parents ) and Grandad about another baby. I don’t think they were happy” they have a history of talking hubby out of anymore kids because 2 is enough apparently but it’s ok for his brother to have 3! (Fair enough the last two were twins but still)

Sorry for the rant. I’m just very sad at the moment. I love all my family and hubbys family but I can’t hwlp but think they’ve played a big part in this.



 
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Old Jun 3rd, 2018, 11:12 AM   569
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AF is here! On to TTC 🤞😅



 
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Old Jun 6th, 2018, 14:02 PM   570
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Hi ladies can I join you?

Currently WTT until September with what will be baby #3



 
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