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Old Apr 15th, 2018, 20:59 PM   1
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Not sure I belong in here 😂

Iím Hannah and Iím mummy to 6 year old Layla and 3 year old George. I was regular on this site while pregnant with both babies 😊

Iím in a very happy new relationship after the breakdown of the relationship with my babies dad. He was a controlling asshole!

Anyway me and my wonderful partner would like to have a baby (he has no children of his own) and also my daughter keeps pestering him for a baby sister 🙈. The thing is he would really like a baby, but he keeps saying when the time is right, which is fine I already have 2 and Iím not in a rush, but he then tells me but what if I keep waiting for the right time and them itís to late, heís 26, not 46 I keep telling him itís fine to wait but from experience I know your never really ready until it happens, but he canít keep to make his mind up and heís scared of the whole deal. I keep reassuring him as Iím already a parent that itís actually easier than he thinks, then he says about the financial side.. bare in mind me both hold down good full time jobs, heís a manager at a supermarket which pays exceptionally well and Iím a childrenís support worker, so we are not really short of money (some of the time, serial spender here &#128584

Anyone have advice on how I can put his mind at rest, it annoys me because I know just how easy things are having a baby and itís really nothing to be scared of where as he is a big bag of anxiety and Iíd like to shake him because one day he will turn around and want a child and Iíll already be a grandmother at this point 😂

Sorry for the long post!

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