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Old Aug 8th, 2018, 16:13 PM   1
Bumblebee24
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Brain working overtime #2


A bit about us my DD has just turned 4 & starting school in September, I am 30 & hubby is 31.

I keep getting the urge of wanting to start TTC for #2

Now here's where my poor brain starts to work over time. Hubby kind of does but doesn't want another. Firstly we're in the first year of him being self employed & he's the main bread winner. Secondly he said he just doesn't know if he could ever go through the tiredness or upset to our current family routine. I totally understand this as we did have a very, VERY difficult start with our DD. I too very much STRUGGLE at the start first 3 months, possibly a slight bit of postnatal depression.

I do however think I'd regret not having another in the future for me, our family & for a sibling for DD. I don't really no what response I am hoping for. I suppose it just sometimes helps to write things down



 
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Old Aug 9th, 2018, 15:46 PM   2
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don't hold resentment towards him, but if you do think you would like to speak to him about the possibility of B#2, when you talk to him don't hold resentment or get stressed. Hoping for the best for your family!



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Old Aug 10th, 2018, 01:36 AM   3
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Thank you hun. Yeah we have spoke about it no resentment felt just a bit gutted. Who knows in time he may change his mind or my brain my stop the surges of me wanting another baby so badly x



 
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