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Old Jun 22nd, 2010, 14:05 PM   191
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Well i'm back - My pig of a oh has changed his mind so back to wtt

It was nice while it lasted

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Old Jun 22nd, 2010, 14:49 PM   192
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Can I please ask what you ladies would do in my situation?

We would love to TTC in September (although I moved my TTC date on this thread to 2011 when I had my sensible head on but we'll ignore that for now!).

As things stand, if I stop taking my pill at the end of my pack in August, I will have finished my breakthrough bleed a week before the wedding. If I remember correctly when I've previously had breaks from the pill, I've pretty much slipped back into having regular periods. If this happens, then I will be due on about a day or so before the end of our 2 week honeymoon (if we don't catch during that time!).

If you were in my situation would you a) stop taking the pill before the wedding so you can start TTC straight away or b) take it until back from honeymoon so you know for sure when your bleed will be?

I'm just interested in hearing other thoughts.
Depends how much shagging you want to do on your holiday?! I'd come off the pill in time for the honeymoon myself, and get shagging!


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Hi! My name is Nicole. I am 35 and my DH will be 37 in July. I had my first baby when I was 30. We currently have 3 beautiful kids. Nicholas is 4, Genevieve is 2 and Viviana is 7 mos. (11.23.2009.) We want a big family, so we aren't done yet!

I would like to start trying now, but we both have agreed to wait at least until my youngest 12 months old. I also want to be close to my goal weight before I get pregnant again. I have lost a total of 47lbs so far and have about 40 more to go. We both know that we want at least one more baby, but have discussed possibly two more. We will see how it goes when we have the next one.

Right now we are doing NFP as our form of BC. I am still learning about it all, but know my body and am pretty regular so, we feel it is pretty safe for us. Although, I did think I was pregnant this month, but AF showed up last night to prove me wrong.

It is nice to meet other women out there WTT over 30. Sometimes I feel like my clock is just ticking away and I get a bit of baby fever..lol. I am trying to be patient though because I know my hubby is right that we should wait.

Nicole
Fab weight loss - congratulations and welcome!


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Well i'm back - My pig of a oh has changed his mind so back to wtt

It was nice while it lasted

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Hugs Angie. Plan lots of lovely things to do over the next six months and it'll fly by! DH and I will be TTCing in about six months, so we can keep each other company!



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Old Jun 22nd, 2010, 15:23 PM   193
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Hi all
Kittenkat - yay on planning your wedding!!! Make sure you enjoy it - I LOVED planning my wedding!!!! Got a bit obsessed actually...
Lou1234, personally if it were me I would continue taking the pill until after the honeymoon - there's no way I would want to be in the situation where I had my period on my honeymoon - let alone not being really sure when I was due and how long, etc - even though you were regular before, I guess there's no guarantee you will be this time... Also, if you are thinking of coming off before the wedding you risk having to deal with potential bleeding on your wedding day - for me there would be no question which option I'd go for!
Angie, oh no, what happened?!?! Lots of changing of minds lately... Big hugs. I've moved you to Jan '11 on front page - is that right?
Welcome Elski What fabulous news that you conceived last time when you expected you might'nt be able to! I put you in March on the front, is that right?
Welcome MrsWifey Congrats on your recent wedding!!!! Hope you had an amazing day!!!
Welcome buterflymomma WTT #4 wow! There's a few others on here WTT their 4th I think!



 
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Old Jun 23rd, 2010, 07:41 AM   194
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Oh I am terribly obsessed with planning this wedding lol, pretty much been given carte blanche on planning it too, other than the budget. Bless my OH he said he really doesnt care about the wedding and the trimmings because he would be very happy to marry me wearing a black bin bag and wellies in the middle of a field, but because it means so much to me I can plan the wedding I want (within the budget)

And obviously as we will be living up in your neck of the woods by then Caroline I have pretty much picked Cardiff town hall for the ceremony

http://www.cardiffcityhall.com/ Have fallen in love with the building, just have to call them later when youngest give me a moment to get their prices because they also can hold the reception too.

Now to get onto planning the dresses and colours and Ooooo I am sooo looking forawrd to this because my last wedding was a stupidly cheap affair, and really not what I wanted from my day if I am completely honest with myself



 
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Old Jun 26th, 2010, 04:33 AM   195
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Sounds Fab Kittenkat - City Hall is gorgeous :-) The only thing I would say - not that it's necessarily a problem but something to be aware of - City hall is right in the middle of town & is busy working offices. During the week everyone will be in work there, and during the weekend that area of town will be busy too - during the summer the parks are full of people sunbathing, etc... & parking is limited too and will cost! I'm really not intending to put you off at all - I think City Hall is a lovely wedding venue - but I don't know how well you actually know the area, so I didn't want you to only go on what you read!!! Personally when I got married, I was put off places that were open to the public which in other ways were lovely - but it's not the same for everyone! My friend had a lovely wedding at the Hilton hotel right by City Hall, and some lovely pics in the park... I was considering Cardiff Castle but was put off by the fact that rooms were open to the public until 30 mins before the wedding...

Hope you have loads of fun planning it all - I LOVED planning mine sooo much!!! I think the hotel thought I was a bit of a psycho when I was telling them exactly what I wanted and had my notebook with all my questions, and all the things I was having - etc... I told them I didn't want napkins in the fan shape (sooo 80's in my book, lol) that they normally did so they let me pick up all the napkins so I could fold them and tie with ribon the way I wanted, haha!!! Nothing slipped my attention I tell you, , I'd love to do it all over again... Enjoy!!!!!



 
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Old Jun 26th, 2010, 06:45 AM   196
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Know the area slightly, OH knows it better as he spends time up around there for work.

Looked at the castle but the pricesz put me off, am on quite a tight budget so if you have any ideas I am very open to them, wish the hotel down the road from the Hall did what other in their chain do and that is "Wedding in a Box" nearly all in for 3500, because we can probably scape that together with some serious saving



 
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I think the council do a list of all the places that are registered to perform civil ceremonys - they used to anyway! Aha, found it - here's the link: http://www.cardiff.gov.uk/content.as...ectory_id=2865. I guess the other local councils will have the same? Castell Coch is gorgeous - but you can only have 30 people!!!! So it was definately out for me!!! I looked at a few of the hotels but we went for New House Country Hotel in the end :-)
I hope I haven't put you off City Hall though - it really would be stunning - it's just that I know the middle of town with the public around isn't everyone's cup of tea - I'd have hated for you to book it and then find out!!!



 
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Old Jun 26th, 2010, 08:27 AM   198
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Oh no not put off, just keeping my avenues open, just incase the whole kit and kaboodle there costs too much.

Busy doesn't really bother me as long as the picture is closer to perfect than my current options around here. The old registry office in town was in a tbh horrible boring building, next door to the council buildings and the swimming pool. The current one while its a prettier building is right on the main taxi rank for town and next door and opposite pubs.

Will have a proper nose around their list and add some more hopefully to my shortlist



 
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Old Jun 26th, 2010, 15:56 PM   199
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Kitten,
Just to let you know, I pretty much had carte blanche when doing our wedding too....
(Hubbie didn't really care too much, so long as we got married!!)

I set myself a budget of 3,000 not including the dress, and the whole dream came in at 3500. Then my parents wouldn't allow us to pay for anything or my dress, so it was even more dream like.

However dreams can come true, it just takes a little imagination in order to realise the whole ocassion. I'll post some piccies to encourage, if it'll help.



 
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Help is always welcome, plus do love looking at wedding things



 
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