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Old Jun 27th, 2010, 05:23 AM   201
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Wedding planning does become obsessive - bit like this WTT and then TTC lark!

My OH told me to narrow down my choices and let him know then we could decide from there! We have a year from engagement to our wedding in September so I had to get a move on! So from day 1 he regularaly got e-mails! I would narrow the photographer down to about 3 people then he would have a look! He has a say and is happy to talk about wedding stuff but I'm pretty much doing it all! But I am quite an organised person when it comes to things like that. I like to have control!

Thanks for the opinions on the coming off the pill issue. I have to make an appointment at the docs in a few weeks as I've only got 1 pack of pill left and need at least 1 more pack! Plus need to have a smear done as doc recommended doing it soon if TTC in Sept as I think I'm due to have one later on in the year which can't happen if I'm pregnant.



 
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Old Jun 27th, 2010, 12:20 PM   202
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Thanks

I felt too upset to reply but i'm fine now.
He just felt we needed to be more than just ready ourselves but also have some money behind us - i totally understand but i just wish he had decided this before he said we could try - oh well.
Although i'm now waiting for af as we did have a week of dtd and even though i had just come off the pill you never know.

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Old Jun 28th, 2010, 13:22 PM   203
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Hey Angie, glad to hear you're feeling a bit better about things now. I did have a read of your journal the other day
Well, I'm guessing you're hoping AF doesn't arrive?!?!? Your OH can't keep changing his mind then!!!! So here's some baby dust just in case!!!



 
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Old Jun 28th, 2010, 17:19 PM   204
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Hey Angie, glad to hear you're feeling a bit better about things now. I did have a read of your journal the other day
Well, I'm guessing you're hoping AF doesn't arrive?!?!? Your OH can't keep changing his mind then!!!! So here's some baby dust just in case!!!
ahhh thanks hun

Yeah i know - he drives me mad sometimes - i cant make it all out - but i have the feeling he is expecting me to take charge about protection - silly man when he knows i want a bubba

I would love it if af didnt arrive but i guess it will eventually as i only came off the pill 2 weeks ago and i doubt we are that fertile.

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Old Jun 29th, 2010, 13:50 PM   205
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Wow - hello to all the new lovlies!!

Just back off short holiday (more to activate DH Canadian immigration status than to have a proper holiday). Still jet-lagged and back in work tomorrow so just a quick hello and catch up properly soon!

Oh - and I turned 30 while away so I guess I am a 'real' OAP now!!



 
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Old Jun 29th, 2010, 14:28 PM   206
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You never know Angie! There is one popular school of thought that believes that fertility is particularly high for the first few months after coming off the pill... that's the reason I'm starting TTC more or less straight away after coming off the pill... Soooo, 2 weeks after coming off the pill, it's possible that you were in fact very fertile in deed when you DTD!!!!

Welcome back Cowtowngirl
Hope you had a lovely holiday and yay! Welcome to your 30's! I turned 31 just over a week ago... it's wierd though isn't it... I just can't believe I'm that old!!!! I still feel 16, lol... And now we're all in a little group where we're 'old' to be having babies?!??!?



 
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Old Jun 29th, 2010, 14:43 PM   207
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Happy Belated Birthday to the both of you!

I'm 30 next April and will be married and maybe pregnant! That thought scares me sometimes!!

I'm also planning on TTC straight off coming off the pill to see what happens.



 
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Old Jun 30th, 2010, 14:46 PM   208
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I came off the pill last nov and no luck yet (have gone from ttc to wtt for a few months due to work stuff) but hopefully you'll have more luck and babydust than I did!

slightly o/t question but how do you mark posts as read?

what did everyone do for their 30th birthdays? Hubby and I both turn 30 within a couple of weeks of each other next year and now that the wedding is done and we've put ttc on hold I'm looking for something to occupy my mind so thought I'd start scheming for our 30th birthdays bash!



 
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Just been told off by hubby for being on here cos it's making him too broody, lol!



 
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Old Jun 30th, 2010, 15:45 PM   210
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I turn 30 in April the day after OH's mum turns 70! I keep joking about a joint 100th birthday bash but it wont happen!!

I'm hoping I get to be in London with my friends and family but I need to accept that I might be up North for my birthday visiting OH Mum!

Defo a good thing to be planning for! Especially if you and hubby have your birthdays so close together!



 
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