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Old Oct 28th, 2010, 10:27 AM   411
BlaireUK
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Can I join too?

I turned 30 in September (DH is 30 too) and we're hoping to move house sometime in the next year and have one last indulgent holiday before trying. Hopefully i'll be moving over to TTC in summer 2011.



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Old Nov 10th, 2010, 17:59 PM   412
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Wondered where this post had go... How are all you "oldies" then?
I think this is great thread x x



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Old Nov 11th, 2010, 03:22 AM   413
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Well I was hoping for a this month but the got me last night. And since my lovely fiance is back in Afghanistan I'm back to WTT until January.

Hope everyone here's doing ok.
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Old Nov 11th, 2010, 07:27 AM   414
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Oh manuiti, sorry to hear that. x x



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Old Nov 12th, 2010, 07:35 AM   415
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Hey girls,
Hope everyone is ok?
letia, kitalola, spicedhazel, Blaire, welcome and I've added you all to the front.

Kitalola, I'm so sorry for your loss

Hi maybabydoll Not long 'til you join us over in TTC now then! I've noticed your ticker, but I've got you down for October... do you want me to change you to December?
- oh and when you (and anyone else!) join us, just to let you know, I've just started an early 30's WTT #1 thread on the buddies section in TTC - come join us!

Aaaaw, so sorry evil got you again manuiti... and that sucks that you're back WTT for a while... This TTC lark is so hard hey? Have you had many cycles when OH has been home at the right time? I'm on my 4th cycle TTC now and it's really getting me down... I'm just so terrified in case it doesn't happen... TTC really is all I can think of and it's just so hard knowing there's nothing you can do except keep trying, and that there's no way of knowing whether it's all gonna work out ok...



 
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Old Nov 12th, 2010, 10:14 AM   416
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Aaaaw, so sorry evil got you again manuiti... and that sucks that you're back WTT for a while... This TTC lark is so hard hey? Have you had many cycles when OH has been home at the right time? I'm on my 4th cycle TTC now and it's really getting me down... I'm just so terrified in case it doesn't happen... TTC really is all I can think of and it's just so hard knowing there's nothing you can do except keep trying, and that there's no way of knowing whether it's all gonna work out ok...
Since July I've had two cycles when we've been in sync. I'm hoping for a couple of slightly longer cycles while he's away so that we are in sync for January as FF is currently predicting the first day I could ovulate in January as the day before he gets home. That would just be too frustrating!

But like you say, all we can do is just keep trying. So I'm back to waiting away...

FX'd for you! xxx



 
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Old Nov 12th, 2010, 11:32 AM   417
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Well, good luck hun... got my fingers crossed for you that the timing works out for you in January! It must be unbelievably frustrating for you! Here's wishing you lots of patience to get through the wait
Best of luck and loads of xxx



 
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Old Nov 12th, 2010, 13:13 PM   418
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So I wonder if any one here has ever heard of MTHFR?
I was diagnosed with it and I am researching it alot
I am trying to figure out why I was able to have 3 perfectly healthy NORMAL babies and then three miscarriages due to this disorder.
Its frustrating.
My mom is such a wonderful help
SHe told me that at the age of 36 (I will be 36 in Dec though I tell every one I will celebrate my 2nd annual 25th bday) I should just stop
I told her no one could tell me but God when I should stop
and she (refering to my miscarriages) said "well he already has THREE times!"
Then my MIL made a comment about my age and since my much younger SIL is pregnant now, my MIL actually told me "well you must be relieved that She is pg, Now you dont have to try so hard"
On the contrary I am happy for her now but at that point I was still grieiving my last loss and wanting sooo badly for that to have been me!!
OK rant over and I know its not the topic of all you have been talking about here recently
But I am worried about my age and TTC and no one else wants to be supportive of me but DH and you ladies here in this forum!
SO hows it goin?



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Old Nov 12th, 2010, 15:06 PM   419
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Hi, I've just joined!!

I'm 30 & The Hubster is 31 and we got married this year. We've been together for 8 years and have both decided that we are now ready to be parents but I'm self employed so I won't receive any maternity benefits like most other British women.

We have formulated a plan and I know you can never really be prepared financially, but I need to at least make sure i've enough money to pay the rent while i'm taking maternity leave!! OH's wages cover most outgoings so it's down to me to save save save for the next few months. I think we'll be TTC early 2011.

I was beginning to feel over-the-hill but my SIL was 32 with her 1st and my sister (35) is TTC with no luck so far, maybe it's the way our family rolls?!!

Can't wait for next year!!!



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Old Nov 12th, 2010, 17:44 PM   420
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Hiya
Just joined!

I'm 28, and my husband is 29 (though is 30th is coming up in less than 2 months!). We've been married over 3 years now, and bought a house soon after the wedding knowing we didn't want to have children in an apartment.

Since then, we have definitely put off having kids because neither of us has been making that much money I went back to school last year as I have always wanted to be a teacher - but of course the demand for teachers right now is nonexistent.

I really wanted to have a kid before I was 30 - but I don't think that's going to happen. My doctor also doesn't seem too sure that I can have kids (easily or at all). We'll see. I've been trying to lose weight in the hope of getting regular periods and am happy to say I have had 2 periods in a row so far

Feels weird to still be waiting - but I don't want to bring a child into the world when we can barely provide for ourselves



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