Feeling low :(

xx Emily xx · Sep 29th, 2010, 13:51 PM

Hey ladies

Feeling really low tonight. For those of you I havent "met" before, I'm getting married in April, and TTC from 1st March, so even if I get pg straight away I wont be more than 4 weeks at the wedding.

One thing that has been bothering me is how easy I am going to find it to get pg. I have this feeling that we are going to struggle. I dont know why coz we have never tried before. Ive missed the pill a couple of times, and nothing although I dunno whether that means anything. Im 24 and oh will be 28 when TTC.

Just to add to my low feeling, oh is in the army and away on course at the moment so Im on my own. And within the last 2 months, 4 of my closest friends on the camp have announced that they are pregnant. Im going to be watching them get bigger and bigger while I wait to try and get pregnant which might not even happen

Sorry for my long rant ladies, just needed to let it out
Em xxx

Sherileigh · Sep 29th, 2010, 14:05 PM

I understand what you're feeling...I'm getting married in January 2011. We already have a LO, so I wouldn't be quite ready yet anyway as I'm selfishly enjoying him all on his own right now! lol. But I can't help wanting to get pregnant soon! I don't want to start trying until after our wedding as we're going away and I want to feel good and be able to have some drinks. But afterwards am hoping to start right away, if not conceive while on our wedding trip/honeymoon!
Honestly I thought for sure I'd have trouble getting pregnant too, I was 32, had never even had the slightest of scares! I was so scared it just wouldn't happen...but I got pregnant first month trying! You honestly never know, I think it's just because it's something you've never done before, so you think it'll never happen, but it will!

xx Emily xx · Sep 29th, 2010, 14:08 PM

I dont know why I feel like it wont happen for us but I just do. And it feels like at the moment I am waiting for my fears to be realised

I dont blame you for enjoying the one you have! He looks gorgeous in the pic!
xxx

Sherileigh · Sep 29th, 2010, 14:16 PM

Thanks...I love him to pieces! Honestly try not to worry too much about it, just relax and enjoy the countdown to TTC! You have no reason to believe you'll have trouble, so don't worry about it unless you have a reason! Don't stress yourself out!

spoona · Sep 29th, 2010, 14:39 PM

It's good to get it off your chest sometimes, I've had my fair share of rants on bnb, it helps to feel that there are others that can empathise with you

I am also getting married in April, we are going to start ttc in 3 weeks time (my oh has just had a vasectomy reversal) which is risky 'cos we are going to Florida for our honeymoon, so there is a chance that I won't be able to go on any of the rides!

Try not to worry too much about infertility, just do all you can to increase your chances of conception, and most importantly, have fun trying!!!

Sep 29th, 2010, 13:51 PM	#1
xx Emily xx Trying to conceive (TTC) BnB Addict Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Norfolk Posts: 2,647	Feeling low :( Hey ladies Feeling really low tonight. For those of you I havent "met" before, I'm getting married in April, and TTC from 1st March, so even if I get pg straight away I wont be more than 4 weeks at the wedding. One thing that has been bothering me is how easy I am going to find it to get pg. I have this feeling that we are going to struggle. I dont know why coz we have never tried before. Ive missed the pill a couple of times, and nothing although I dunno whether that means anything. Im 24 and oh will be 28 when TTC. Just to add to my low feeling, oh is in the army and away on course at the moment so Im on my own. And within the last 2 months, 4 of my closest friends on the camp have announced that they are pregnant. Im going to be watching them get bigger and bigger while I wait to try and get pregnant which might not even happen Sorry for my long rant ladies, just needed to let it out Em xxx

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Sep 29th, 2010, 14:05 PM	#2
Sherileigh Other BnB Addict Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Canada Posts: 4,789	I understand what you're feeling...I'm getting married in January 2011. We already have a LO, so I wouldn't be quite ready yet anyway as I'm selfishly enjoying him all on his own right now! lol. But I can't help wanting to get pregnant soon! I don't want to start trying until after our wedding as we're going away and I want to feel good and be able to have some drinks. But afterwards am hoping to start right away, if not conceive while on our wedding trip/honeymoon! Honestly I thought for sure I'd have trouble getting pregnant too, I was 32, had never even had the slightest of scares! I was so scared it just wouldn't happen...but I got pregnant first month trying! You honestly never know, I think it's just because it's something you've never done before, so you think it'll never happen, but it will!

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Sep 29th, 2010, 14:08 PM	#3
xx Emily xx Trying to conceive (TTC) BnB Addict Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Norfolk Posts: 2,647	I dont know why I feel like it wont happen for us but I just do. And it feels like at the moment I am waiting for my fears to be realised I dont blame you for enjoying the one you have! He looks gorgeous in the pic! xxx

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Sep 29th, 2010, 14:16 PM	#4
Sherileigh Other BnB Addict Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Canada Posts: 4,789	Thanks...I love him to pieces! Honestly try not to worry too much about it, just relax and enjoy the countdown to TTC! You have no reason to believe you'll have trouble, so don't worry about it unless you have a reason! Don't stress yourself out!

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Sep 29th, 2010, 14:39 PM	#5
spoona Waiting To Try (WTT) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: Devon Posts: 48	It's good to get it off your chest sometimes, I've had my fair share of rants on bnb, it helps to feel that there are others that can empathise with you I am also getting married in April, we are going to start ttc in 3 weeks time (my oh has just had a vasectomy reversal) which is risky 'cos we are going to Florida for our honeymoon, so there is a chance that I won't be able to go on any of the rides! Try not to worry too much about infertility, just do all you can to increase your chances of conception, and most importantly, have fun trying!!!

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