Feeling really low tonight. For those of you I havent "met" before, I'm getting married in April, and TTC from 1st March, so even if I get pg straight away I wont be more than 4 weeks at the wedding.
One thing that has been bothering me is how easy I am going to find it to get pg. I have this feeling that we are going to struggle. I dont know why coz we have never tried before. Ive missed the pill a couple of times, and nothing although I dunno whether that means anything. Im 24 and oh will be 28 when TTC.
Just to add to my low feeling, oh is in the army and away on course at the moment so Im on my own. And within the last 2 months, 4 of my closest friends on the camp have announced that they are pregnant. Im going to be watching them get bigger and bigger while I wait to try and get pregnant which might not even happen
Sorry for my long rant ladies, just needed to let it out
I understand what you're feeling...I'm getting married in January 2011. We already have a LO, so I wouldn't be quite ready yet anyway as I'm selfishly enjoying him all on his own right now! lol. But I can't help wanting to get pregnant soon! I don't want to start trying until after our wedding as we're going away and I want to feel good and be able to have some drinks. But afterwards am hoping to start right away, if not conceive while on our wedding trip/honeymoon!
Honestly I thought for sure I'd have trouble getting pregnant too, I was 32, had never even had the slightest of scares! I was so scared it just wouldn't happen...but I got pregnant first month trying! You honestly never know, I think it's just because it's something you've never done before, so you think it'll never happen, but it will!
I dont know why I feel like it wont happen for us but I just do. And it feels like at the moment I am waiting for my fears to be realised
I dont blame you for enjoying the one you have! He looks gorgeous in the pic!
Thanks...I love him to pieces! Honestly try not to worry too much about it, just relax and enjoy the countdown to TTC! You have no reason to believe you'll have trouble, so don't worry about it unless you have a reason! Don't stress yourself out!
It's good to get it off your chest sometimes, I've had my fair share of rants on bnb, it helps to feel that there are others that can empathise with you
I am also getting married in April, we are going to start ttc in 3 weeks time (my oh has just had a vasectomy reversal) which is risky 'cos we are going to Florida for our honeymoon, so there is a chance that I won't be able to go on any of the rides!
Try not to worry too much about infertility, just do all you can to increase your chances of conception, and most importantly, have fun trying!!!
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