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Old Oct 8th, 2010, 21:25 PM   11
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Ok, please don't get mad at me...and I WONT do it..but my husband wants us to wait till our daughter is 2 to start trying again..which wont be until Sept 2011..but i want to have a "whoops".
I know if I got pregnant sooner he would be fine with it b/c he loves his daughter and will LOVE his next child..but prefers us to wait...
How evil would I be? I know I know..it would be awful..thats why i keep taking my pill EVERYDAY...but..UUGGGHHH...the thought ALWAYS crosses my mind...anybody else?
It is great to hear somebody say what I think all the time. My daughter will be 2 the same time. My DH keeps telling me his is not ready yet either. It is hard because I always think that when that time comes, he may think he is not ready then either. It is hard to put it out of your mind. Our first baby was a surprise and so I wish we would just have a second surpise here to go along with that! Just wanted you to know, I am right there with you. Just think, every AF we endure is one cycle closer to a BFP!



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Old Oct 9th, 2010, 09:26 AM   12
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maz287, glad to know I am not alone! I agree..i too am worried when the time comes around that hubby will tell me ..well..lets wait another 6 months..or something like that..
I know we WILL try again some day b/c he really wants to try for a boy..so I know I have a least one more shot LOL



 
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Old Oct 9th, 2010, 12:07 PM   13
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maz287, glad to know I am not alone! I agree..i too am worried when the time comes around that hubby will tell me ..well..lets wait another 6 months..or something like that..
I know we WILL try again some day b/c he really wants to try for a boy..so I know I have a least one more shot LOL
Daisy, you're thread has voiced the thought that keeps popping up in my head lately. I know it would be bad to just stop taking my pills or miss a couple to increase the chance of a "whoops" but part of my body thinks that would be fantastic.
We are WTT for our first baby and I'm also scared that when next year hits he's going to be to all wishy washy and "not ready" to try. We've already moved it back once and I'm tired of waiting. However, I'm scared to resort to something as drastic as not taking my bc. I know he'd come to terms with having a baby sooner if I was pregnant but I guess I'll be fair to him too. So, I will continue to take the little pills ... but every time AF rolls around I'm just going to be sad and broody (that's how I feel today).

Secretly I hope he will want to TTC sooner.. but I don't see that happening any time soon. I think our goal is Aug/Sept 2011 (what if he changes it again, I will be so crushed).



 
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Old Oct 10th, 2010, 14:50 PM   14
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maz287, glad to know I am not alone! I agree..i too am worried when the time comes around that hubby will tell me ..well..lets wait another 6 months..or something like that..
I know we WILL try again some day b/c he really wants to try for a boy..so I know I have a least one more shot LOL
Daisy, you're thread has voiced the thought that keeps popping up in my head lately. I know it would be bad to just stop taking my pills or miss a couple to increase the chance of a "whoops" but part of my body thinks that would be fantastic.
We are WTT for our first baby and I'm also scared that when next year hits he's going to be to all wishy washy and "not ready" to try. We've already moved it back once and I'm tired of waiting. However, I'm scared to resort to something as drastic as not taking my bc. I know he'd come to terms with having a baby sooner if I was pregnant but I guess I'll be fair to him too. So, I will continue to take the little pills ... but every time AF rolls around I'm just going to be sad and broody (that's how I feel today).

Secretly I hope he will want to TTC sooner.. but I don't see that happening any time soon. I think our goal is Aug/Sept 2011 (what if he changes it again, I will be so crushed).
I have to force myself to swallow that pill every morning..
People keep telling me to wait..enjoy my daughter b/c once I have another baby she will no longer be the baby but the BIG sister..i understand..but i cant believe how much I miss being pregnant! I LOVED going to the doctors each month and feeling so important! When I was pregnant I felt like superwoman! "I can make a baby!" I thought to myself! Being a mom is like being a superhero too..but there is just something about rubbing your belly and feeling your baby kick you back...ahhh....
I nag my hubby all the time about babies...so I think he will give in at some point..that's how I got him to let us try for our daughter..just kept asking..
hey, it;s worth a try, as long as it wont lead to an argument



 
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Old Oct 10th, 2010, 19:36 PM   15
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maz287, glad to know I am not alone! I agree..i too am worried when the time comes around that hubby will tell me ..well..lets wait another 6 months..or something like that..
I know we WILL try again some day b/c he really wants to try for a boy..so I know I have a least one more shot LOL
Daisy, you're thread has voiced the thought that keeps popping up in my head lately. I know it would be bad to just stop taking my pills or miss a couple to increase the chance of a "whoops" but part of my body thinks that would be fantastic.
We are WTT for our first baby and I'm also scared that when next year hits he's going to be to all wishy washy and "not ready" to try. We've already moved it back once and I'm tired of waiting. However, I'm scared to resort to something as drastic as not taking my bc. I know he'd come to terms with having a baby sooner if I was pregnant but I guess I'll be fair to him too. So, I will continue to take the little pills ... but every time AF rolls around I'm just going to be sad and broody (that's how I feel today).

Secretly I hope he will want to TTC sooner.. but I don't see that happening any time soon. I think our goal is Aug/Sept 2011 (what if he changes it again, I will be so crushed).
I have to force myself to swallow that pill every morning..
People keep telling me to wait..enjoy my daughter b/c once I have another baby she will no longer be the baby but the BIG sister..i understand..but i cant believe how much I miss being pregnant! I LOVED going to the doctors each month and feeling so important! When I was pregnant I felt like superwoman! "I can make a baby!" I thought to myself! Being a mom is like being a superhero too..but there is just something about rubbing your belly and feeling your baby kick you back...ahhh....
I nag my hubby all the time about babies...so I think he will give in at some point..that's how I got him to let us try for our daughter..just kept asking..
hey, it;s worth a try, as long as it wont lead to an argument
I also loved be pregnant. I felt the most beautiful and amazing when I was pregnant. I loved having that big round belly. I never had to worry about feeling 'fat or bloated' that day because I always had a big belly. I also don't want my daughter to miss out on having a sibling close in age. I decided not to even bring up the subject until the beginning of the new year. Then I will slowly start bringing it up again. I guess until then, I will just continue to notice all the pregnant ladies and new babies everywhere I go and hope that soon it will be me!



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Old Oct 12th, 2010, 07:46 AM   16
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when I was on the pill I was so depressed because all I wanted to do was stop taking it and start trying.
I know how you feel because it took ages before OH was happy for me to stop taking them.
Now he's decided he's not really as ready as he thought he was but I've told him I'm NOT going back on the Pill. He'll just have to work out contraception himself.
But I'm crushed. I'm really looking forward to pregnancy and having a baby and now I don't know When he'll be ready.

EDIT: Ugh I need to clear my head!

I ment to add that while I was on the pill I was tempted to do a 'whoops' a few times, but OH's brother had that done to him, and the relationship failed and now he's married to someone else and paying child support. I didn't want OH to think I was gonna do that to him.
Lol, that was the actually reason I replied, and I forgot to write it! >.<



 
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Old Oct 12th, 2010, 11:06 AM   17
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when I was on the pill I was so depressed because all I wanted to do was stop taking it and start trying.
I know how you feel because it took ages before OH was happy for me to stop taking them.
Now he's decided he's not really as ready as he thought he was but I've told him I'm NOT going back on the Pill. He'll just have to work out contraception himself.
But I'm crushed. I'm really looking forward to pregnancy and having a baby and now I don't know When he'll be ready.

EDIT: Ugh I need to clear my head!

I ment to add that while I was on the pill I was tempted to do a 'whoops' a few times, but OH's brother had that done to him, and the relationship failed and now he's married to someone else and paying child support. I didn't want OH to think I was gonna do that to him.
Lol, that was the actually reason I replied, and I forgot to write it! >.<
I stopped Nuva Ring because it completely lowered my sex drive, I never wanted to. I told DH that it was stupid to be on Nuva Ring when I never even wanted to. So I stopped using it and told him, like you, that he would have to take over in that department. He was ok with that. There are times when he doesn't want to do anything, but at least then it's up to him and he knows the consequences (me with my fx'd).



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Old Oct 12th, 2010, 11:52 AM   18
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Hey ladies, my OH and I agreed that I should come off the pill ostensibly because it was affecting my weight and my libido, but there was a big part of me that wanted to start trying. My ex's baby was conceived on a "whoops" (actually a complete lie) and he was so bitter about it. So I'd say be honest about your contraception status, if they want to prevent, make it their responsibility!!



 
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Old Jan 20th, 2011, 21:14 PM   19
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ok, I have come off my pills. Hubby and I are using condoms now. I am hoping time will fly by fast!



 
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Old Jan 21st, 2011, 04:16 AM   20
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Yay So happy for you, its one step closer isnt it? I had my coil takem out a week ago and I feel sooo much happier now. But like you I am hoping for a happy accident! My DS will also be 2 in Sept. I think we will be discussing TTC then too. With any luck we could be bump buddies lol.



 
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