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Old Oct 7th, 2010, 13:48 PM   1
daisybby03
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WTT, but dont want to!


Ok, please don't get mad at me...and I WONT do it..but my husband wants us to wait till our daughter is 2 to start trying again..which wont be until Sept 2011..but i want to have a "whoops".
I know if I got pregnant sooner he would be fine with it b/c he loves his daughter and will LOVE his next child..but prefers us to wait...
How evil would I be? I know I know..it would be awful..thats why i keep taking my pill EVERYDAY...but..UUGGGHHH...the thought ALWAYS crosses my mind...anybody else?



 
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Old Oct 7th, 2010, 14:43 PM   2
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i know how you feel hun. im not on the pill or anything (we are just using the withdrawl method) i keep telling my OH that when im on top when we are dtd im just going to refuse to get off lol
having to wait sucks!! xx



 
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Old Oct 7th, 2010, 15:18 PM   3
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Hi, would your husband be ok with coming off the pill to prepare your body for TTC a few months before? It would be another (closer) milestone to aim for. I'm not suggesting you do this but it's something I might consider because I know it took me 6months after stopping the pill for DD1. And by all means, im not suggesting that you make sure there is "whoops" before you decide to TTC but I find it easier to have something to work towards.



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Old Oct 7th, 2010, 15:21 PM   4
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Im WTT till Sept 2012 - its a nightmare! If only my body would let me hold on till then but my will crumbles daily

I know exactly what you mean and how you feel if we had a 'whoops' my partner would be fine and over the moon after the shock, we just have to be sensible or I could really mess up both of our careers

Only a yr nd 10 months to go for me...



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Old Oct 7th, 2010, 15:24 PM   5
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I know you're desperate hunny but nooooo.
On the bright side, LO will be older and more independant xxx



 
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Old Oct 7th, 2010, 15:57 PM   6
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Ok, please don't get mad at me...and I WONT do it..but my husband wants us to wait till our daughter is 2 to start trying again..which wont be until Sept 2011..but i want to have a "whoops".
I know if I got pregnant sooner he would be fine with it b/c he loves his daughter and will LOVE his next child..but prefers us to wait...
How evil would I be? I know I know..it would be awful..thats why i keep taking my pill EVERYDAY...but..UUGGGHHH...the thought ALWAYS crosses my mind...anybody else?
No-one is gonna be mad at you hunny but honestly it will fly by. I am TTC in Aug/Sept 2011 and it has flown by, i cant believe its just 10 months. Hang in there chick and it will be here before you know it xxx



 
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Old Oct 7th, 2010, 18:45 PM   7
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I am just like happygal!



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Old Oct 7th, 2010, 20:13 PM   8
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I know how you feel its hard but one thing that is helping me right now i bought a book from target called What to Expect Before You're Expecting its lets you know everything that you can do to get into tip top shape for baby growing...also have read and my doctor told me that being on folic acid 800mcg (im just taking a normal prenatal pill) up to a year before conception can help prevent premature birth.



 
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Old Oct 8th, 2010, 14:20 PM   9
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I know how you feel its hard but one thing that is helping me right now i bought a book from target called What to Expect Before You're Expecting its lets you know everything that you can do to get into tip top shape for baby growing...also have read and my doctor told me that being on folic acid 800mcg (im just taking a normal prenatal pill) up to a year before conception can help prevent premature birth.
yes i am also taking the prenantal vitamins already too...I tell hubby it's for pretty hair Might scare him if I told him i was ALREADY preparing for baby #2



 
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Old Oct 8th, 2010, 14:22 PM   10
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I know how you feel its hard but one thing that is helping me right now i bought a book from target called What to Expect Before You're Expecting its lets you know everything that you can do to get into tip top shape for baby growing...also have read and my doctor told me that being on folic acid 800mcg (im just taking a normal prenatal pill) up to a year before conception can help prevent premature birth.
yes i am also taking the prenantal vitamins already too...I tell hubby it's for pretty hair Might scare him if I told him i was ALREADY preparing for baby #2
lol I just scare my hubby by saying "you know i want 6 kids totally right" (we have two girls right now) lol he thinks i am crazy...I think I was born to be a mom



 
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