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Old Jan 7th, 2011, 06:12 AM   151
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I couldn't imagine having to wait 4/5 year before trying but it is likely that will be trying for that long as this rate!

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Old Jan 7th, 2011, 06:31 AM   152
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That is true!

My husband wants me to have finished my accountancy exams before we try as he thinks (and his mother) that if I am pregnant or have the baby (someone needs to remind them that it takes 9mths to cook) before I have finished I will have no incentive too finish!

I disagree and just find it more pressure on me when they are already hard enough!

I am not on the pill haven't been since Nov-10 but now we are using condoms which we both hate

When I say anything to him about it and about time running out etc etc he justs says what will be will be! which just makes me so damn angry!

Nightmare, your MIL should butt out of your family planning! If it was me, being pregnant would be an incentive to try even harder and pass the exams because you'll have a wee bundle to think about securing your future for and not just you.

I hope you both reach a compromise soon. Maybe you could suggest that you start trying when you pass your next exam - that way if you catch straight away you'll have at least another 9 months to try and get through the others...

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I won't budge my OH, he has too many things he wants sorted before we even start trying



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Old Jan 7th, 2011, 07:25 AM   154
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That is true!

My husband wants me to have finished my accountancy exams before we try as he thinks (and his mother) that if I am pregnant or have the baby (someone needs to remind them that it takes 9mths to cook) before I have finished I will have no incentive too finish!

I disagree and just find it more pressure on me when they are already hard enough!

I am not on the pill haven't been since Nov-10 but now we are using condoms which we both hate

When I say anything to him about it and about time running out etc etc he justs says what will be will be! which just makes me so damn angry!

Nightmare, your MIL should butt out of your family planning! If it was me, being pregnant would be an incentive to try even harder and pass the exams because you'll have a wee bundle to think about securing your future for and not just you.

I hope you both reach a compromise soon. Maybe you could suggest that you start trying when you pass your next exam - that way if you catch straight away you'll have at least another 9 months to try and get through the others...

Xxx

I know it is none of her business at all! That is what I said but now I just feel the pressure when doing the exams (can only take them in June & December) which will make me more stressed and more likely to fail because I know if I don't pass I can't have a baby

I bring the subject up on a daily basis trying to wear him down!

I get my Dec-10 exam results on the 21st Feb so hopefully if I have done well in them it will be a point on my side to try and persaude him to my line of thinking rather than his mothers!



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Old Jan 7th, 2011, 07:59 AM   155
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I get my Dec-10 exam results on the 21st Feb so hopefully if I have done well in them it will be a point on my side to try and persaude him to my line of thinking rather than his mothers!
My wee sister sat the same exam as you! She isn't very optimistic about how well she's done though. In the month before the exam when she was desperately trying to study and concentrate when her flat was flooded by the upstairs neighbour. It was so bad she got evacuated to a local hotel and she's been in it ever since! Such a shame, she was really stressed out about the exam but found it really hard to concentrate at work, study and live in a hotel without her home comforts!

I hope you get the results you deserve! X



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Oh no your poor sister sounds awful

I hope she does well, fingers crossed

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update - after much pestering OH has said if I pass the Dec-10 exams (x2) results in Feb and the Jun-11 exams (x2) results in Aug-11 then he will assume i will pass the last exam in Dec-11 1st time and we can start trying then so potentially could TTC in Aug-11, which is better

still thinking I could cut him down some more months though



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Well that's good news, gives you something positive to look forward to and then that makes time fly fast hopefully
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Hopefully but it is all down to the exam results and damn now I am stressing and nervous and going to put way too much pressure on myself!

ho hum at least is a little light at the end of the tunnel



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Old Jan 7th, 2011, 11:50 AM   160
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I won't budge my OH, he has too many things he wants sorted before we even start trying

My OH says exactly the same difference is, im on limited time cus of my back condition OH doesnt understand that though he still thinks i can wait years



 
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