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Old Nov 9th, 2010, 04:43 AM   71
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Atleast you have a gorgeous baby :-)

I can imagine it's still hard though, so it's not a dig or anything :-)

I have atleast 19 months to wait, if I have to wait longer I would be distraught.



 
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Old Nov 9th, 2010, 08:38 AM   72
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I am feeling pretty frustrated today and last couple of days. I think I have been thinking about babies too much, I can't stop looking at nursery furniture or little baby clothes.

I really need a definitive answer off hubby, at least then I would know that we are going to try. At the moment I am so scared he is going to say he doesn't want a baby at all.

He has said he is close to a yes... then why doesn't he just say yes!

I told him I needed a final answer by Christmas so I'm just hoping he is saving it as a Christmas present.



 
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Old Nov 9th, 2010, 08:50 AM   73
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MEN! They are so indecisive!



 
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Old Nov 10th, 2010, 06:12 AM   74
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I found out that yet another girl from my school year is prego. I am devastated, she has been with the guy for a couple of months, doesn't live with him etc. We've been together for SIX years next month, and we're being sensible and refraining. It just is NOT fair.



 
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Old Nov 10th, 2010, 10:54 AM   75
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I know how you feel!

One of my friends announced that she is pregnant today. That means I know:

4 people due in Nov
1 person in Jan
1 person in Feb
1 person in April
1 person in May

It feels like the whole world is pregnant!!! Don't get me wrong, I am genuinely happy for my friends - just wish it was my turn



 
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Old Nov 10th, 2010, 11:34 AM   76
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Oh this thread is def. me! My relationship is long distance and we only see eachother every few months so it's doubly tempting to skip a few when I know he will be here. It's made worse by the fact that he is a bit older and would really love to TTC for our first anytime- but I know deep down the time isn't right. I used to be adamant that I didn't want any children but something has happened this last year that has changed everything- it's like a switch has suddenly been flicked or something.

When you are WTT pregnancy feels like a special club that you are being refused entry to..... for me anyway, even if it is of my choice right now.



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Old Nov 10th, 2010, 11:35 AM   77
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When you are WTT pregnancy feels like a special club that you are being refused entry to..... for me anyway, even if it is of my choice right now.
Totally agree!



 
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Old Nov 10th, 2010, 12:39 PM   78
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When you are WTT pregnancy feels like a special club that you are being refused entry to..... for me anyway, even if it is of my choice right now.
Totally agree!
yup, sometimes it really feels like that's the case ^^



 
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Old Nov 10th, 2010, 13:11 PM   79
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Can i join?

I so want another but i am still on maternity leave after having my son. So i am on the pill. My son doesnt sleep through the night so it would be silly to try just now. Doesnt stop me having that longing for another though and the fact that it seems everyone around me is pregnant.

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Old Nov 11th, 2010, 03:35 AM   80
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The main thing that keeps me going is thinking as of January 2011, I can say 'next year'



 
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