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Old Nov 24th, 2010, 16:23 PM   1
wannabmamma
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WTT but not by my choice


im very annoyed and hurt!! OH informed me today that he wants to stop TTC untill next summer when hes finished college I dont want to wait!! its going to drive me crazy

Both OHs sister and my SIL are newly pregnant so I have to watch them grow and talk about babies all the time while knowing I wont have one untill after next summer

Also found out that my body rejects the pill so I have to find something else but I dont like the sound or look of any of the others oh and Im allergic to condoms



 
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Old Nov 24th, 2010, 17:19 PM   2
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Its going to be hard, but just think of how much easier it will be when your OH has finished college, he will be able to spend time with the baby without worrying that his grades will drop or have to keep leaving to do coursework and things.
However, the way you've worded it is that you've already been trying up until now, if thats the case its out of order for him to suddenly say he wants to stop TTC!!! Em



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Old Nov 24th, 2010, 17:21 PM   3
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Oh, and you could wait and see how your sister and friends cope and learn from their mistakes along the way?? Thats how Ive been seeing it, my friend gave birth on monday and it made me so upset!!!



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Old Nov 24th, 2010, 17:21 PM   4
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yeah we have been trying for months now!! he said college is starting to get stressfull and doesnt need the extra stress of TTC



 
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Old Nov 24th, 2010, 17:22 PM   5
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they both already have kids!! i have 6 niece and nephews and OH has 2



 
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Old Nov 24th, 2010, 17:23 PM   6
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Oh god, maybe give him a few weeks to think about it, does he have exams at the minute? That might be why. After Christmas he might feel a bit better about things!



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Old Nov 24th, 2010, 17:24 PM   7
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no his exams arnt untill Jan but i know hes studying for them now but i dont see how sex can be stressfull now



 
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Old Nov 24th, 2010, 17:25 PM   8
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Oh, I know how you feel.
DH and I had a deal to wait until May when he will graduate from his MBA but then he decided to do a PhD also... I'm happy for him because that's what he wants but I do want a baby (like you) so bad. So we're just having fun, not trying really (but I still count the days and look for symptoms and stuff). I know how you feel but maybe if you guys just have fun (not trying, not preventing) it'll happen. I know it was that way for some couples I know.

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Old Nov 24th, 2010, 17:28 PM   9
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Sex should be letting him relieve some of the stress! Don't understand that one...



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Old Nov 24th, 2010, 17:28 PM   10
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It's horrible hun I WTT for almost two years because my OH wasn't ready yet. There is usually a light at the end of the tunnel though, at least you have a date when you can try xx



 
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