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Old Nov 29th, 2010, 09:33 AM   1
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Gimme some peace of mind... please


Well, Thursday I move into my own home. I have a mortage, a car and home to pay bills on... eep. I am moving on my own, I'm terrified. Not just because of money (I now have 2p to last me till pay day) because of the 12.5k I had to pay out for the legal fee's etc on Friday.

... I'm scared because I am doing it all alone. Numero Uno. By my self. Lonesome.

Andrew has been lovely with me, keeps saying he'll stay with me whenever i feel alone, and he'll keep me company. I've been dating him for nearly 2 months now, he is lovely.

Just wondering... when did you move in with your OH's? I can't say I've asked Andrew yet and I probably wont anytime soon... I'm just curious. I was with Rob (my ex) for a year when I moved in with him.



 
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Old Nov 29th, 2010, 09:38 AM   2
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I would give it at least six months to be honest with you as by then you will be moved in, got to know him better and settled . Me and my OH moved in together after three and a half years xx



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Old Nov 29th, 2010, 09:40 AM   3
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I moved in with my DH after about 6 months, engaged after 1 year then married after 3 years.



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Old Nov 29th, 2010, 09:52 AM   4
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I would give it sometime...just enjoy your place for awhile....such an exciting time! I LOVED my first condo, felt soooo proud of myself, loved knowing it was all mine and I did that by myself!! Enjoy that for awhile hun!



 
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Old Nov 29th, 2010, 09:57 AM   5
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I was with my OH for 11 months when I found out I was pregnant so then we had to move in together! Luckily we moved in 3 months later so we had been together for 14 months and lived together for 6 months before we were parents. Luckily for us we were meant to be and our relationship got so much stronger when we moved in together.



 
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Old Nov 29th, 2010, 10:23 AM   6
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Your first home is so exciting! Congrats, you'll love it after a few weeks. I didn't move in with my boyfriend (now husband) until we'd been together for 8 years! Argh, sound so long but we were only 16 when we started going out and we went to uni and then I lived with friends and he did the same for a few years. I love that we did it this way though so I'd say give yourself some time before taking that leap. It'll make it all the more special. X



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Old Nov 29th, 2010, 11:56 AM   7
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i was with my OH 2years before we moved in together

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Old Nov 30th, 2010, 05:25 AM   8
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To be honest I don't think I will ask him yet, he needs to get his finaces in order before he can really move away from home. but the bonus with him is that he has a lovely 32inch flat screen television he can bring with him :-) hehe jokes...

But serious, I am still cacking myself. I had a phone call last night about the payment and it didn't go through for some reason! I'm gutted so I don't really know what to think. I have to go into the bank today and find out whats happened, but i'm now a little nervous that I probably wont be moving thursday now afterall.




 
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Old Nov 30th, 2010, 06:32 AM   9
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I moved in with my boyfriend (now husband) after 11months but i was 5months pg by then. Lucky for us he owned his own house as I still stayed with my parents at the time. We married in August this year after almost 7 years together and we're now trying for number 3 now so its worked out for us. Its not all been easy but then life never is.

Best wishes in your new home, you'll know yourself when the time is right.



 
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Old Nov 30th, 2010, 08:01 AM   10
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i was dating my husband for 2 months when i moved in with him then we got married a year later now we have been married 3 years and still are going strong



 
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