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Old Nov 30th, 2010, 13:23 PM   1
rainbowgirl
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Pregnancy 'Scare', Now Disappointed


My partner and I would love to be parents one day, but not until our circumstances improve (mainly financial, some emotional).
I was beginning to think I'd accidentally conceived, as my period is a little late, been feeling dizzy and had some cramps but no bleeding. I did a test, which came back negative.
Phew, no accidental pregnancy before the time is right!
So why cant I help feeling disappointed deep down? I really do want to start a family, and wish I could do it now. I know it's sensible to wait until we could provide for the baby better, but damn I so want one!
It doesnt help that so many of my friends are currently pregnant or already have children. Of course I'm happy for them, I just cant help wishing I had my own little one too.
This has turned out to be quite a waffly post! Hopefully some of you understand?



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Old Nov 30th, 2010, 13:45 PM   2
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i know how you feel hun, i thought i had accidently fallen pregnant as well and took a test today which was also a BFN which left me really dissapointed and i cant understand why especially as my youngest is only 6months. Just think though when the time is right for you it will be all the more enjoyable when you dont have to struggle etc. and you can always log on here and pour your heart out when your upset! x x



 
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Old Nov 30th, 2010, 13:48 PM   3
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I completely understand how you feel. I was diagnosed with PCOS in January 2009 and because my periods were so irregular I was constantly doing pregnancy tests then feeling disappointed when they came back negative.....yet me and my bf still didnt stop having unprotected sex (we weren't in the right position to have a baby at the time and never talked about it, I was jsut subconsiously tempting fate). Then in the November I fell pregnant for real and although I was in shock it was the most wonderful thing to ever happen to me, and although we weren't in the right position at the time to have a baby, we had 9months to make it right, and now I couldn't be happier.

Everything happens for a reason, don't feel too disheartened. It will happen one day and it will be wonderful x



 
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Old Nov 30th, 2010, 23:08 PM   4
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I completely understand how you feel. I was diagnosed with PCOS in January 2009 and because my periods were so irregular I was constantly doing pregnancy tests then feeling disappointed when they came back negative.....yet me and my bf still didnt stop having unprotected sex (we weren't in the right position to have a baby at the time and never talked about it, I was jsut subconsiously tempting fate). Then in the November I fell pregnant for real and although I was in shock it was the most wonderful thing to ever happen to me, and although we weren't in the right position at the time to have a baby, we had 9months to make it right, and now I couldn't be happier.

Everything happens for a reason, don't feel too disheartened. It will happen one day and it will be wonderful x
totally crashing, but had to say what a cute avatar you have!! love the bubbles!!



 
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Old Dec 1st, 2010, 04:53 AM   5
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Awwww thank you!!! She thought it was hilarious! xxx



 
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Old Dec 1st, 2010, 06:27 AM   6
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hey i have been in the same situation this month.

my period was late, which is really unusual and i was getting my hopes up even tho we want to wait, my OH is far away from being ready for a little one..

however i finally came on last night and i can't help feeling gutted..
inside i am praying for this happy little accident to happen to us
i know we could make the circumstances right within 9 months..but then again i want OH to be wanting bubs too

our time will come hun!!



 
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