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Old Jan 12th, 2011, 15:43 PM   21
Welsh_mum2be
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Awww Hun, I raelly feel for you but tbh if it was me I would probably stop using protection and see what he says ....thats probably the only way to get a true answer - would be with my DH anyways, Good luck xx



 
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Old Jan 12th, 2011, 16:30 PM   22
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ooohhh sounds promising! next time you are about to dtd and get the condoms out i would just say since i'm so broody do we really need these? then you should get a true answer, if he freaks out and says yeah we do then you know he isn't ready but if he says you don't need them i guess that is the green light to go ahead and start ttc



 
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Old Jan 12th, 2011, 19:25 PM   23
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men..and they think we are the confusing ones!



 
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Old Jan 13th, 2011, 11:29 AM   24
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Thanks all i will see what happens when we next have Im trying not to get my hopes up incase its "no we need to use protection" but then at least id know



 
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Old Jan 14th, 2011, 04:16 AM   25
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Ah hun i'll keep my fingers crossed for ya that you get the response you want!!



 
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Old Jan 14th, 2011, 04:25 AM   26
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Keeping fingers crossed that OH decides you can TTC



 
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thanx girls



 
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Old Jan 16th, 2011, 16:34 PM   28
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Thanks both lu-is yeah we use condoms so he would obviously know if we wasnt protected, he knows my dates roughly so he'd know when abouts i was ovulating aswell. And fumbles the main important reason we were waiting was because he said he wasnt ready for us to have a baby, so thats why him saying that has confused me lol men eh?

Just throwing it out there but is any man ever really 'ready' to have a baby. My OH doesn't want us to TTC just yet as our LO is only 12 weeks but he has said if i got pregnant he would still be happy about it. We're WTT as now would not be ideal, but before LO was concieved I don't think either of us was really ready. When the time comes you just kind of have to be ready..its not an option!!! If your OH has said he's happy to TTC one day then maybe speak to him to see if he thinks he'll ever feel ready or if he can maybe see that he'll never feel ready but when the time comes he'll just have to get on with it!!!!



 
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Old Jan 17th, 2011, 04:58 AM   29
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Thanks both lu-is yeah we use condoms so he would obviously know if we wasnt protected, he knows my dates roughly so he'd know when abouts i was ovulating aswell. And fumbles the main important reason we were waiting was because he said he wasnt ready for us to have a baby, so thats why him saying that has confused me lol men eh?

Just throwing it out there but is any man ever really 'ready' to have a baby. My OH doesn't want us to TTC just yet as our LO is only 12 weeks but he has said if i got pregnant he would still be happy about it. We're WTT as now would not be ideal, but before LO was concieved I don't think either of us was really ready. When the time comes you just kind of have to be ready..its not an option!!! If your OH has said he's happy to TTC one day then maybe speak to him to see if he thinks he'll ever feel ready or if he can maybe see that he'll never feel ready but when the time comes he'll just have to get on with it!!!!

I think I have to agree with that my OH doesn't like change but like I keep telling him life changes and he just needs to deal with it! I know his reasons for wanting to wait and I can see the logic from his point of view although I do not agree but at the same time I know if we did get pregnant he would be happy! Men are just scared as it means they have to grow up and also share you with someone



 
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Thanks both lu-is yeah we use condoms so he would obviously know if we wasnt protected, he knows my dates roughly so he'd know when abouts i was ovulating aswell. And fumbles the main important reason we were waiting was because he said he wasnt ready for us to have a baby, so thats why him saying that has confused me lol men eh?

Just throwing it out there but is any man ever really 'ready' to have a baby. My OH doesn't want us to TTC just yet as our LO is only 12 weeks but he has said if i got pregnant he would still be happy about it. We're WTT as now would not be ideal, but before LO was concieved I don't think either of us was really ready. When the time comes you just kind of have to be ready..its not an option!!! If your OH has said he's happy to TTC one day then maybe speak to him to see if he thinks he'll ever feel ready or if he can maybe see that he'll never feel ready but when the time comes he'll just have to get on with it!!!!
I agree with u 110% there chick, i know it scares him and i know he hates change, i think its cus since he was a teenager his folks told him "no bringing home gran kids" and i think its gone into his mind too much he worries what his parents will say but i really think they would be happy to get there 1st gran child, hes old enough to make his own decisions. I understand he wants money to be better but we arent exactly broke and would make the best of things if we fell pregnant. He has said he'd be happy about it once he got over the inital shock so it just confuses me more lol



 
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