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Old Dec 10th, 2010, 11:25 AM   1
odd_socks
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would you take control?


Ok strange question but me and my OH was talking about babies and my broodiness at the weekend and what he said has kind of been playing on my mind ever since he said "if your broodiness gets that bad then just take control and 'have you way with me'" (he means dont use any protection) Now part of me is thinking "ok so does he want a but leaving it up to me?" or is he saying it, knowing that i wouldnt do that cos i know he doesnt feel ready for a LO yet? Or is it just telling me what i want to hear? Im kind of confused cos dont get me wrong i'd love to have my way and have a LO, but i dont want to do it and he was dead against it Help please



 
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Old Dec 10th, 2010, 11:33 AM   2
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I would be a bit skeptical of his feelings until you get a definate answer hun

however in saying that OH always used to drop hints and say weird things when really he was just testing the waters to say how i really feel. Then one day we just both agreed, but made sure this was both what we wanted.



 
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Old Dec 10th, 2010, 11:35 AM   3
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thank you



 
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Old Dec 11th, 2010, 11:50 AM   4
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I would take it at face value and jump him!! Hey...you're just doing what he said!!



 
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Old Dec 11th, 2010, 12:23 PM   5
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if i did we could be bumpbuddies then lol i might see if he says it again and if he does, well thats his fault



 
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Old Dec 11th, 2010, 13:12 PM   6
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I would be a bit skeptical of his feelings until you get a definate answer hun

however in saying that OH always used to drop hints and say weird things when really he was just testing the waters to say how i really feel. Then one day we just both agreed, but made sure this was both what we wanted.
I agree with this hun sorry.



 
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Old Dec 11th, 2010, 13:57 PM   7
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thanks hun i will seriously think about it and see whether he says it anymore



 
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Old Dec 11th, 2010, 14:05 PM   8
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I think it's way too big of a commitment to go off of something that could have just been a joke, could you try having serious conversation with him about it? It sounds promising though if he's saying he'd be willing to not use protection if you 'jump' him lol.



 
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Old Dec 11th, 2010, 14:07 PM   9
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I think it's way too big of a commitment to go off of something that could have just been a joke, could you try having serious conversation with him about it? It sounds promising though if he's saying he'd be willing to not use protection if you 'jump' hi lol.
i think he would be willing to talk about it seriously yeah, so i think when i see him next i will have a proper talk about it, see whether is was meant as a joke or not



 
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Old Jan 11th, 2011, 11:38 AM   10
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And hes said this again is he telling me to do this?? confused!!



 
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