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Old Dec 10th, 2010, 14:04 PM   1
LittleAngel09
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Confused...........


Ok, sounds crazy but my daughter is only 3 months old and I'm already wanting to try for another. My husband feels the same but we have decided to wait until next summer. Has anyone else experienced this shortly after giving birth?? My pregnancy was horrid as well, so I really don't know why I'm feeling like this. We do want two with a small age gap but has anyone got pregnant so soon after their last? Am I crazy?



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Old Dec 10th, 2010, 14:21 PM   2
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ur not crazy, i havent felt that was personally as i dont have any yet but i know afew people who have felt exactly the same



 
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Old Dec 11th, 2010, 12:57 PM   3
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Really? So I'm not totally crazy then. I keep having to remind myself how sick I was (all day and night until week 20) and how I suffered with terrible pelvic pain from mid way through. Not to mention the constant heartburn! Plus I almost died giving birth....but then she's worth it all and thats whats making me want to ttc again.




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Old Dec 11th, 2010, 13:01 PM   4
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yeah my best mate she had a difficult pregnancy like urself and literally 2days after she had her daughter she told me she wanted another right away.....her OH isnt keen on the idea yet thou so they are having to wait but only for that reason if it was up to her she'd have another now



 
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Old Dec 11th, 2010, 15:14 PM   5
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Not crazy at all, I'm right there with you. My little guy will be 10 weeks tomorrow, and I've been thinking about trying for another A LOT. We originally planned to wait until Simon was at least a year, but I think I'll be ready before then. I can't believe I'm thinking this way, especially since we spent his first 6 weeks in reflux hell, but here I am brooding away. I think my husband will be excited to try sooner, but I'm scared that I won't be able to fully enjoy Simon's "baby-ness" if I get pregnant too soon



 
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Old Dec 13th, 2010, 06:39 AM   6
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I would start TTC now with my LO at 8 weeks but OH wants to hold off for a bit. I really want my kids close together, so ideally would like to have no more than a year between, but its not looking like it'll happen. I'm also worried as it took 2 and half years to concieve Jess so don't want to prolong trying too long incase it takes that long again!! I am uber broody, i can't stop thinking about having another baby, and my pregnancy was also horrible, I had bad SPD,horrible sickness and generally felt like crap. But it wa al so worth it, and (strangely) I loved giving birth... quite possibly the most empowering experience of my life :-)



 
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Old Dec 13th, 2010, 08:00 AM   7
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i see quite a few ladies feeling that way on here! which SCARES ME as i was kind of hoping that having a baby would satisfy my biological clock for a while, now I'm not so sure!



 
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Old Dec 13th, 2010, 10:46 AM   8
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huni you are not alone with feeling like that i do too, and my lil girl is only 4 weeks old, litterally as soon as she was born i wanted another, im sooo broody its scary, but theres not alot i can do about it because im single(ex dumped me when was 36 weeks pregnant with our lil girl) xXx



 
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