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Old Dec 18th, 2010, 02:47 AM   21
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it is scary but thats part of the excitment! Like a theme park! Lol. And yes even when your baby is messy you still want to kiss them, even when they wake you up for the 10th time in a night, you will still kiss them goodnight x



 
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Old Dec 18th, 2010, 07:08 AM   22
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I'm glad to hear it's not just me; sometimes I feel like I'm going crazy! One day I can focus on nothing other than picking baby names, prams, clothes... thinking about how amazing it would be to have my own child. As soon as the next day, it can make me feel terrified - I worry about how much would change; whether I would be able to cope with it and how it would effect my relationship with my partner. On the days where I stress about it I wonder whether it means that I'm not ready after all, but on one of my broody days its a struggle even to think of waiting until September!



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Old Dec 18th, 2010, 11:09 AM   23
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I'm glad to hear it's not just me; sometimes I feel like I'm going crazy! One day I can focus on nothing other than picking baby names, prams, clothes... thinking about how amazing it would be to have my own child. As soon as the next day, it can make me feel terrified - I worry about how much would change; whether I would be able to cope with it and how it would effect my relationship with my partner. On the days where I stress about it I wonder whether it means that I'm not ready after all, but on one of my broody days its a struggle even to think of waiting until September!


im exactly the same, is so nice to know it isnt just me, sometimes i hope that we fall pregnant accidently as i can cope with things much better than planning things as (like i said i over think everything)



 
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Old Dec 18th, 2010, 11:37 AM   24
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Ahh yes, I know that feeling! If it was an accident I know that we'd deal with it and find a way to make it work for us now. I'd be over the moon to see a positive, no matter how much logic says now isn't the right time. But when you're trying to actively plan, there's a lot of what if's! Basically, I'm pretty sure I'm going to drive myself, my OH and a lot of the ladies on here totally mad over the next 9 months... Haha, sorry!



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Old Dec 18th, 2010, 11:46 AM   25
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Yep, I already have a little girl and although I really do want another, I do get moments of... Oh my god- Im terrible at being pregnant

Seriously the sickness, the pain, the worry, the birth, the tiredness when they do come.

I think it's perfectly natural, you'll never, ever stop worrying as a mum so it's just a small taste of what's to come



 
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Old Dec 18th, 2010, 11:55 AM   26
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Ahh yes, I know that feeling! If it was an accident I know that we'd deal with it and find a way to make it work for us now. I'd be over the moon to see a positive, no matter how much logic says now isn't the right time. But when you're trying to actively plan, there's a lot of what if's! Basically, I'm pretty sure I'm going to drive myself, my OH and a lot of the ladies on here totally mad over the next 9 months... Haha, sorry!

PMSL! i think the same yes lol im already driving my friends and parents crazy with baby talk



 
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Old Dec 18th, 2010, 13:03 PM   27
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PMSL! i think the same yes lol im already driving my friends and parents crazy with baby talk
I know, originally we weren't going to tell anyone at all that we had plans to TTC... now my mum and my best friend both know! Aww it's good to know that we're all in the same boat.

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I think it's perfectly natural, you'll never, ever stop worrying as a mum so it's just a small taste of what's to come
Good point!



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Old Dec 18th, 2010, 14:57 PM   28
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hell yeah! I prance around being depserate to have a baby and as soon as my other half seems like he might just say ok I shit myself lol wondering if it is the right decision etc etc
Lol, this was me last dec! Did a total about turn when it looked like OH was gonna give in to all my talk and decided I wasn't ready yet!! So contrary!



 
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Old Dec 18th, 2010, 15:23 PM   29
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i have a son, who is almost 3. next week Im having my coil removed and then we will start TTC#2, but as the date approaches I am very nervous and even starting to doubt if I will be able to cope with two babies. I know I am being silly, i love being a mum, but Its scaring me!



 
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Old Dec 18th, 2010, 15:28 PM   30
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I felt like that when I was pregnant! Mainly because im selfish and materialistic! (least im honest!) Still now I have my gorgeous son, I would give up everything for him xx



 
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