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Old Dec 20th, 2010, 08:48 AM   1
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for those of you wtt no 2


is it still as stressful as the first time round? i remember the 1st time, as i didnt know whether we could have kids, i found it quite stressful and it only took us 4 months to conceive!! will i be as stressed next time round? xx



 
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Old Dec 20th, 2010, 10:32 AM   2
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hi,

I'm wondering the same thing. we too didnt think I could concieve and ended up getting preggo relatively rapidly. it was stressful and i'm hoping it wont be as much next time buuuuuuuut....i'm desperate for another baby so I cant imagine it not being the exact same feeling? other than i know that i can concieve...

what are your thoughts? when do you plan to start trying?



 
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Old Dec 20th, 2010, 11:00 AM   3
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I had a miscarriage my first pregnancy, then got pregnant with my DD right after and was a nervous wreck the whole time..thinking I was going to lose her...I keep telling myself next time I will be less worried and will breeze through pregnancy..but in the truth, I know I will be just as scared. You love them more than anything the SECOND you find out your pregnant..all you want is a healthy baby.



 
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Old Dec 21st, 2010, 03:03 AM   4
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hi,

I'm wondering the same thing. we too didnt think I could concieve and ended up getting preggo relatively rapidly. it was stressful and i'm hoping it wont be as much next time buuuuuuuut....i'm desperate for another baby so I cant imagine it not being the exact same feeling? other than i know that i can concieve...

what are your thoughts? when do you plan to start trying?

probably the same as you, say im not going to stress but the moment you start trying you want it right there and then!! well weve had brief discussions and think we might try aroud June/July when lo will be 2, what about you hun? xx



 
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Old Dec 21st, 2010, 08:00 AM   5
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We started NTNP after finding out I had PCOS and it took 11 months. But we didn't really talk about it so it was quite laid back and just had the attitude of if it happens it happens. Because we had only just got together. I felt that Isla was a miracle baby, so when trying for #2 I think I am going to be a nervous wreck convincing myself I was just lucky the first time! xx



 
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Old Dec 21st, 2010, 09:25 AM   6
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The first time around we werent trying but werent preventing, it took 8 months! But because it was a shock it didnt feel like long at all. This afternoon I am having my coil removed and I know I have cysts from the Mirena, so I am thinking it might take a while. Not that I am sure if having cysts effect getting pregnant as Ive never had them before. I also have a very scatty aunt flo who doesnt always decide to show her face. I can imagine it getting stressful but I am also thinking stress will not help with conception so we are just going to take it easy and go with the flow



 
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Old Dec 21st, 2010, 11:42 AM   7
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i havent had first time around yet and already stressing about it



 
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Old Dec 21st, 2010, 13:48 PM   8
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I've a ovarian cyst as well and I think I'm going to be more stressed this time as I didn't know about the cyst first time round... thats why I'm trying to convince dh to NTNP asap!! but he's not too keen yet... maybe xmas present!!??



 
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Old Dec 21st, 2010, 14:00 PM   9
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I'm worried about secondary infertility, and of course another MC. But I think I'll be distracted for a bit from the hecticness of TTC because I have a little one to occupy my time. WTT isn't as bad as it was before because I still don't have af back, and again, a baby to occupy my time.



 
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