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Old Dec 27th, 2010, 12:29 PM   11
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drinking for two yet?


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Ditto, I had lots of so your stiill drinking then, and ohh we've been watching what your drinking
Oh I really dislike those comments. A guy on my trivia team says 'drinking for two I see' everytime I don't have a beer! (I see him weekly and I might drink once a month)

I know he's trying to be funny, but it grates on me some days.



 
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Old Dec 27th, 2010, 12:47 PM   12
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Yeah it grates when you really want to be! Delusionally toying with the hope I can somehow bring ttc forward x



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Old Dec 28th, 2010, 09:46 AM   13
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MY SIL announced that she is pregnant exactly a month after my last miscarriage
she is pooching out. and I am dying inside I understand so well



 
Old Dec 28th, 2010, 12:59 PM   14
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MY SIL announced that she is pregnant exactly a month after my last miscarriage
she is pooching out. and I am dying inside

My Sister's SIL announced her 3rd baby via facebook and changed her profile pic to the sonogram. The baby was due on the exact same date as my sister's 2nd angel baby. She had just miscarried and 3 days later they get the news. The rest of the family was over joyed and couldn't understand why she'd be upset. And dear BIL was livid when she timidly asked if they would mind changing the profile pic for a few weeks... So she shut her facebook account down for a few months. She couldn't stand seeing all the good news and that sonogram picture knowing she had just lost her little one with that duedate.
I felt so bad for her.

I know now that I won't be putting belly pictures or sonogram pictures as my profile. I may not know who's suffering out there.



 
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Old Dec 28th, 2010, 13:14 PM   15
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I put on my brave face
She is actually a terrific person and deserves a baby I wont deny her that.
but it kills me
Christmas eve she had pulled her shirt up to change he belly button ring (her DH bought her a special one for pregnancy) and I nearly cried looking at her bump
She is only 14 weeks
She found out she is having a girl
(she is a labor and delivery nurse so every one likes to "practice" ultra sounding her)
I have gotten so I dread family functions for no other reason than I am completly jelouse!!!!!
Any how
thanks for understanding that
And I feel for your sister.
Its not that I deny her her ability to happiness, its just that it reminds me soo much of my own loss.
If that makes any sense



 
Old Dec 28th, 2010, 13:17 PM   16
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we'll all get there. But I feel so good having found this place. I feel the support for sure. Knowing I'm not alone in my baby cravings.

I think I'll just leave my 'mood' to broody!!

Hugs and baby dust to you!



 
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Old Dec 28th, 2010, 15:04 PM   17
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I agree I can say things in here that I cant even Share with my own husband sometimes.
He actually got upset with me when I cried over my SILs pregnancy.
He later understood
And generally is a good guy but tha one kinda sucked



 
Old Dec 28th, 2010, 15:32 PM   18
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Yeah one of my BFFs got upset when her SIL announced her BFP 'oops'. She was so upset and her DH didn't understand why.
her SIL is a nightmare and had DS1 to avoid deployment!!!!
and then DS2 came when she wasn't trying.

But I can see that my BFF is totally a way better mother. She loves DS to death. He's going to be such a great little boy, and already is. the cousins... not so much ;-)



 
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Old Dec 28th, 2010, 15:46 PM   19
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MY SIL announced that she is pregnant exactly a month after my last miscarriage
she is pooching out. and I am dying inside I understand so well
My aunt & I got pregnant (on accident) in like the same week.. I miscarried about 2 months later & she's got a lovely bump on her belly.. I can totally relate! That was about 6 months ago, & here I am, getting ready to try again.. Keep your chin up..



 
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Old Dec 28th, 2010, 15:50 PM   20
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MY SIL announced that she is pregnant exactly a month after my last miscarriage
she is pooching out. and I am dying inside I understand so well
My aunt & I got pregnant (on accident) in like the same week.. I miscarried about 2 months later & she's got a lovely bump on her belly.. I can totally relate! That was about 6 months ago, & here I am, getting ready to try again.. Keep your chin up..


awww i cant imagine how that feels must be horrible, i hope ur turn comes soon



 
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