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Old Dec 29th, 2010, 09:49 AM   21
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i am jealous of everyone with a bump even when i have one myself.
if they are still pregnant when i have already given birth... i am jealous.
i just love being pregnant.
christmas is a awkward time to be pregnant... i have been pregnant through 2 of them and breastfeeding through 1 of them so 3 non alchaholic christmas' makes me feel a lil bit less jealous of her though. lol
plus think of all the nice foods your can eat and she cant.
pate, salmon, brie, soft cheese, stilton and deli meats... mmmmmm LUCKY YOU! xxx



 
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Old Dec 29th, 2010, 10:34 AM   22
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MY SIL announced that she is pregnant exactly a month after my last miscarriage
she is pooching out. and I am dying inside I understand so well
My aunt & I got pregnant (on accident) in like the same week.. I miscarried about 2 months later & she's got a lovely bump on her belly.. I can totally relate! That was about 6 months ago, & here I am, getting ready to try again.. Keep your chin up..

thank you do the same.
MC is hard it dosnt matter how far you were or how many
it dosnt get easier
It does get easier as time goes on.
And watching some one bump knowing it SHOULD be you, is heartbreaking
I am round to talk to if ever you need
when do you ttc??



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Old Dec 29th, 2010, 10:53 AM   23
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I know exactly what you're saying. Christmas was hard for me this year, too, because DH's aunt is pregnant and has the same due date that I did. And also his cousin just had a baby two days before Christmas, so everyone was fighting over holding the baby.
His family acts like they're afraid to say anything to me about babies. They act like I'm unstable. lol Which only makes it worse.
And my family just says "One day will be your time" or "It wasn't meant to be" whenever things are brought up. So when I am slightly disappointed that I should have a big bump by now, my family just looks at me like I'm crazy because I "dodged a bullet."
I don't think anyone will ever really understand until they've been through it, honestly.
I'm sorry you had to go through that. It is so hard to be happy for someone else's happiness whenever you're broken inside.



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Old Dec 29th, 2010, 11:23 AM   24
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MY SIL announced that she is pregnant exactly a month after my last miscarriage
she is pooching out. and I am dying inside I understand so well
My aunt & I got pregnant (on accident) in like the same week.. I miscarried about 2 months later & she's got a lovely bump on her belly.. I can totally relate! That was about 6 months ago, & here I am, getting ready to try again.. Keep your chin up..


awww i cant imagine how that feels must be horrible, i hope ur turn comes soon
Thank you so much
It will I know it
You too!

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i am jealous of everyone with a bump even when i have one myself.
if they are still pregnant when i have already given birth... i am jealous.
i just love being pregnant.
christmas is a awkward time to be pregnant... i have been pregnant through 2 of them and breastfeeding through 1 of them so 3 non alchaholic christmas' makes me feel a lil bit less jealous of her though. lol
plus think of all the nice foods your can eat and she cant.
pate, salmon, brie, soft cheese, stilton and deli meats... mmmmmm LUCKY YOU! xxx
LOL

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I know exactly what you're saying. Christmas was hard for me this year, too, because DH's aunt is pregnant and has the same due date that I did. And also his cousin just had a baby two days before Christmas, so everyone was fighting over holding the baby.
His family acts like they're afraid to say anything to me about babies. They act like I'm unstable. lol Which only makes it worse.
And my family just says "One day will be your time" or "It wasn't meant to be" whenever things are brought up. So when I am slightly disappointed that I should have a big bump by now, my family just looks at me like I'm crazy because I "dodged a bullet."
I don't think anyone will ever really understand until they've been through it, honestly.
I'm sorry you had to go through that. It is so hard to be happy for someone else's happiness whenever you're broken inside.
That is so hard
I agree with you untill you have been thru it you really dont understand
I know personaly I didnt
I used to look at people who mcd and think "well they have two already" or "she was barely pregnant whats the big deal"
and after having gone thru it I understand now and feel terribly for thinking that way to begin with
I am hoping that by next christmas I have a little one too
Mine will be littler than my SIL's not that its a competition, but you know the little ones always have the most looking to hold them lol
is that wrong?



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Old Dec 29th, 2010, 11:26 AM   25
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I dont think it matters how far gone, a MC is hard for any woman, once u know ur pregnant u are already attached to ur child. Like i said i cant imagine how that must feel



 
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Old Dec 29th, 2010, 11:31 AM   26
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Yeah From the momen you get your you develop dreams for this child. You picture yourself in a nursery or taking them to thier first day of school.
You ask "will the baby look like him or me?"
but I beleive we have Hijacked this thread
So sorry

I hope I will be forgivin



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Old Dec 29th, 2010, 11:38 AM   27
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Yeah From the momen you get your you develop dreams for this child. You picture yourself in a nursery or taking them to thier first day of school.
You ask "will the baby look like him or me?"
but I beleive we have Hijacked this thread
So sorry

I hope I will be forgivin

Awww i imagine thats how it must be, all i hope when i have a baby is it doesnt have my OH's shoulders (hes a rugby player and has huge shoulders lmao)



 
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Old Dec 29th, 2010, 12:19 PM   28
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Yeah From the momen you get your you develop dreams for this child. You picture yourself in a nursery or taking them to thier first day of school.
You ask "will the baby look like him or me?"
but I beleive we have Hijacked this thread
So sorry

I hope I will be forgivin

Awww i imagine thats how it must be, all i hope when i have a baby is it doesnt have my OH's shoulders (hes a rugby player and has huge shoulders lmao)
hahahah thinking about birthing them??? ROFL



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Old Dec 29th, 2010, 13:57 PM   29
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MY SIL announced that she is pregnant exactly a month after my last miscarriage
she is pooching out. and I am dying inside I understand so well
My aunt & I got pregnant (on accident) in like the same week.. I miscarried about 2 months later & she's got a lovely bump on her belly.. I can totally relate! That was about 6 months ago, & here I am, getting ready to try again.. Keep your chin up..

thank you do the same.
MC is hard it dosnt matter how far you were or how many
it dosnt get easier
It does get easier as time goes on.
And watching some one bump knowing it SHOULD be you, is heartbreaking
I am round to talk to if ever you need
when do you ttc??
Yes, when I first MC'd, I cried for a solid 2 - 3 weeks everytime I thought about our loss.. I'd be sitting at my desk at work & have to run to the bathroom cause I would feel this overwhelming feeling that I was going to start crying & not be able to hold it back.. Everytime I saw a pregnant woman, even out in public, I would start crying & have to leave the room or turn my head.. I was so jealous! You don't want to ever take away someone's happiness, and I know how bad this is going to sound, but I didn't like even looking at pregnant women, it's almost like I was mad at them.. CRAZY & not nice! I've gotten past that stage now.. I mean, I'm still jealous & think all of the time that I could be just like them.. And what our baby would have looked like.. But anyway... We are TTC beginning February.. I am going off of the BC 1/23 & have my 1st OB appt 1/21.. CAN'T WAIT!!



 
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Old Dec 29th, 2010, 14:07 PM   30
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I am 3 dpo but not ttc untill jan
so as soon as I get my af in Jan we are doing clomid in hopes of getting a BFP quickly
I sooo want to be pregnant too
~sigh~



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