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Old Jan 1st, 2011, 14:25 PM   1
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Jealousy..


My colleague has gone into labour this afternoon and is now in hospital waiting to deliver, and I'm SO jealous!! Her pregnancy has been so easy - she got her BFP the first cycle of trying, has had no sickness or problems and today is her due date so she hasn't even gone early/over.

It makes me really annoyed for some reason...I feel like a bad person for not being happy for her haha.

Urgh just after writing that I got a text saying she has had a little boy, I just want to cry



 
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Old Jan 1st, 2011, 14:46 PM   2
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awww chick :hugs ur not a bad person at all its the envy needle pricking u i know how u feel a friend of mine today announced shes pregnant, feel so down but happy for u is really hard isnt it



 
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Old Jan 1st, 2011, 14:56 PM   3
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Aw thanks

Yeah it's been hard to deal with in work too, she has previously had 3 abortions as well (out of convenience, not medical reasons) so she is obviously as fertile as a manured field, doesn't help! I just hope she brings him into work on a day I am off, don't think I could handle it!

That must be hard our day will come hehe x



 
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Old Jan 1st, 2011, 14:57 PM   4
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aww i couldnt handle it either, i dont think ur alone there, ur right our time will come hopefully sooner rather than later cus its depressing being super broody lol x



 
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Old Jan 1st, 2011, 15:01 PM   5
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I don't know how i would handle it. A colleage of mine is half way, it will be hard.



 
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Old Jan 1st, 2011, 15:09 PM   6
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Thanks girls, feel a bit better knowing i'm not alone. Everyone else would think I am evil for not being happy for her. Obviously I am, but I can't bring myself to text her or anything, it's not like she is a friend.



 
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Old Jan 1st, 2011, 15:14 PM   7
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*hugs* its not easy



 
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Old Jan 2nd, 2011, 00:28 AM   8
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My coworker's water broke at work back in the fall, 3wks early, she gave birth in under 3 hours... we saw her and the baby the day she checked out of the hospital and she looked fantastic (did yoga before and during the pregnancy). I kind of hate her a little bit. But her baby girl is so friggin cute. Tiny Feet, tiny hands... great baby smell... omg I wanted to steal her.

It was tough, followed by the news another coworker was 3 months along... at my old work there were 3 babies in a row... Its hardly a shocker that I'm broody.



 
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Old Jan 2nd, 2011, 12:32 PM   9
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doesnt help i know that one of my best mates is due to have a baby boy in 3-4wks but could come anytime, i know that it's gunna make me even worse am i the only one that goes past broodiness into depressive broody?



 
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Old Jan 2nd, 2011, 13:26 PM   10
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doesnt help i know that one of my best mates is due to have a baby boy in 3-4wks but could come anytime, i know that it's gunna make me even worse am i the only one that goes past broodiness into depressive broody?
No not at all, I'm a bit like that today. A few people on Facebook are preg too and I have had to block them from my news feed, there is only one I can bear talking to at the mo cos she is quite a close friend.

I've got a hormone imbalance (they suspected PCOS) so I know it will probably take a while after I start TTC before I get my BFP.

*sigh* I'm glad I found this forum it helps me feel less crazy



 
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