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Old Jan 6th, 2011, 07:48 AM   1
corrie anne
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Is there a long term waiting thread??? Anyone waiting long?



I am waiting until 2015 to start ttc another baby for 2016. Or might even be longer. I want somewhere where i can come and rant about it.lol. I want more now but OH wants more later. This is my goal to reach 2015 i will only be 32. I am excited about waiting and see if i had hold out, i will have to anyways cause OH is holding out and cant really do it with him
Anyone want to make this a long term wtt thread and be buddies?



 
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Old Jan 6th, 2011, 08:34 AM   2
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Hello!

I'm waiting very long term! It's killing me lol.

The OH wants to wait until i've finished uni, got a job and save enough for a deposit on a house... So I have no year to work to, it's just whenever we've got our own place which could be years and years away yet.




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Old Jan 6th, 2011, 08:40 AM   3
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So glad I'm not alone in the LTWTT! We are waiting another 3 years
Its going to be so hard to wait that long, but we have to as OH is starting Graduate school this May. Its a 2 1/2 year program hes entering and we arent exactly in the best financial standing right now either. Plus we want to be married, settled in the city we're going to be living with a house as well. UGH!!! I know its the best, but its so hard. I didnt really want a big age gap between my son and the new baby. Theres already a 6 year gap between DD and DS.



 
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Old Jan 6th, 2011, 08:42 AM   4
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It's so hard isn't it? Especially at the moment for me as there are so many people I know that are pregnant lol

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Old Jan 6th, 2011, 08:43 AM   5
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Aww, i am sorry

I know it is hard to start at first, but when you know everything is in place you will have everything you need for baby and should not have any unwanted surprises like loss of job.ect. But these things can happen after a baby as well. So, you never know what can happen.

I sometimes feel silly for wanting more since we have so many already. I think i am going to have a hard time with an empty nest when all my babies move on. I will be almost 40 when my oldest is 18 and hopefully on the collage. My youngest will be 10. If we dont have another before that, i want one before i am 45. NOW THAT IS CRAZY



 
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Old Jan 6th, 2011, 08:44 AM   6
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Oh I know!!! One of my friends is having a scheduled c-section the end of this month. Shes having a little girl.....I really WANT a girl next. I have a daughter and son at the moment and really really want another. I just wish we were already in the right place to start trying....ugh



 
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Old Jan 6th, 2011, 08:46 AM   7
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If we all stick to together we can have our moans and our rants and before we know it we'll be having a LO's... At the moment though, it just seems like such a LOOONNGGG wait lol

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Old Jan 6th, 2011, 08:48 AM   8
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Yes we should all definitely stick together! It will make the LONG wait so much easier. We should make our own thread in here, LONG term waiting to try!!! or something like that. So it gives us girls who are waiting forever to have a place to come talk and such....what do you ladies think?



 
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Old Jan 6th, 2011, 08:52 AM   9
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I think that is a brilliant idea, so many of the threads are for people who are only waiting a year or two... Where can us girlies write who have to wait nearly forever? lol
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Old Jan 6th, 2011, 08:54 AM   10
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Hi June Momma!!!
I understand. I also want to go back to school when most of my babies are in school. I have 2 in elementary school. I will have 1 off to kindergarten in the fall and 2 in pre-kindergarten for half a day in the fall as well. So i will only have 1 at home for half a day. I can not wait to have them starting school, i really need that time to let go since i have been with children for 8 years. And Avery need mom to herself for once. That is why we are waiting so long. I want to be able to have one on one time with baby without having to stop and change anothers diapers, or give a drink, take someone to the potty. I want the baby to be like the first(i know that sounds funny) but i mean like i want all my kids to be sleeping on there own in there own beds, not coming to us in the night. I want them to wipe there own butts(lol) feed themselves, make there own rooms up. I guess what i am saying is, i want to do less work lol.
I want to become an obgyn or a nurse in the NICU since i have had 3 there before. Another reason for me to wait. I have to lose weight, cut out sugars and caffeine, i have to space the next pregnancy out to quite a few years to make sure that the reason for me going into PTL and birth was not b/c my kids were so close together and i did not recover from the last.
So, that is my goal.lol



 
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