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Old Jan 7th, 2011, 02:18 AM   1
emmajane
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Being stupid.


Hi,

I've not written in this section before as never really had a WTT period. However, I am really upset about something. I really want more children and so does my husband - although at times he pretends I am crazy for wanting more sleep deprivation and toddler tantrums! I am hopefully due to have an operation later this year and have just found out that they recommend that you don't get pregnant for 18 months to 2 years afterwards. We can't get pregnant before, partly due to money as DH is changing career and the thought of waiting so long is really upsetting. I have that real feeling of need to have a baby inside and the thought of having this for the next 3-4 years is so upsetting. I know it is ridiculous as I am so lucky to have 2 gorgeous boys already.

Sorry for the post and there is no need to reply as I know there is no answer but just had to write it down to tell someone.



 
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Old Jan 7th, 2011, 03:18 AM   2
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I'm not sure if it this will help but it helped me with mt WTT. A friend told my SIL the other day who has a very long journey infront of her because of a medical condition that
"A wait always looks longer when looking at it from the beginning, it is never so long when you look back on it"
I think it is so true.

Good luck with you health and the WTT



 
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Old Jan 7th, 2011, 11:35 AM   3
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awww sorry that u have to wait so long......however some women in WTT will also be waiting that long too so im sure this section will be able to help u along the way good luck with the operation



 
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Old Jan 9th, 2011, 15:38 PM   4
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Thankyou both. You make a lot of sense and I didn't realise it would be ok for me to post despite such a long wait. However I've just had to turn off 'one born every minute' I had taped over Xmas as too emotional.



 
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Old Jan 9th, 2011, 15:43 PM   5
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lol awww i havent watched it yet, im really broody as it is so im scared to watch it



 
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Old Jan 9th, 2011, 16:12 PM   6
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Has me in tears throughout!



 
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Old Jan 12th, 2011, 08:55 AM   7
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I must admin I'm hooked, I feel as if I NEEEEDDDD. to watch it.



 
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