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Old Jan 10th, 2011, 09:58 AM   11
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I am so sorry for your loss, I couldn't begin to imagine how you must feel

I have to say mc is my biggest fear and not being able to conceive too being a WTT



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Old Jan 10th, 2011, 12:50 PM   12
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Thanks ladies, Im feeling really ready now, I bleed a little over the last 2 days and in a way it helped. as before i hadnt bled at all and could beleive i wasnt pregnant anymore. Now I feel ready, im taking conception plus and not hubby taking the male one just so it feels like were doing it together, mostly just because i think my body need a bit of refueling after losing 2 stone in the pregnancy.

Im also having a little health kick just again to make me feel as good and ready as i can.

We have 2 weeks before we can try, ive thought about waiting until my next cycle but Im not really caring about my dates, im going to try to not know or tell anyone until im in second trimester. if i get morning sickness ill do a test lol!

Wishing all you ladies all the best of luck and hoping we all get our babies in our arms soon xxx



 
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Old Jan 10th, 2011, 14:23 PM   13
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I had my MC (this word is hard for me to even say right now) on the 19, and had the D&C done on the 31st. I'm on antibiotics also right now, but as my own personal choice, I decided to wait about 6 mths before we start trying again...that way I know my body has healed..I know your more fertile after having the D&C, I just have this huge fear..What if this happens again? Am I ready to go through that again so soon after the last?



 
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Old Jan 10th, 2011, 14:40 PM   14
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I had my MC (this word is hard for me to even say right now) on the 19, and had the D&C done on the 31st. I'm on antibiotics also right now, but as my own personal choice, I decided to wait about 6 mths before we start trying again...that way I know my body has healed..I know your more fertile after having the D&C, I just have this huge fear..What if this happens again? Am I ready to go through that again so soon after the last?
i have that fear too, i spoke lots with the staff who all assured me and even encouraged me to TTC again now, but as you say its a very individual choice. its hard to know whats the best. Im scared too, if i did MC again i would def wait quite awhile before TTC but all i can think about is TTC right now so i figure i go with my heart and gut (even though my heart is breaking). Im doing everything i can to be as helathy as i can in these two weeks and beyond.

It took me 8 months to get this BFP so i dont want to delay, I lost my baby on my 27th birthday and i need to be pregnant again this year! i dont want to turn 28 and not be pregnant! its stupid i know, but i need to try now.

I hope you will be ok, i do think its really sensible waiting and preparing as much as you can, A pregnancy is really draining and so is a miscarriage, so im sure your body will be better for the break. I hope you get your BFP very soon once you both ready again. Lots and lots of luck and im so sorry for your loss



 
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Old Jan 11th, 2011, 04:29 AM   15
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Can I just say to you both that having experienced a few miscarriages that each one feels different. I didn't wait after my first and caught quickly with twins. When I lost them I waited a full year and on a one-off holiday to Disneyland Florida last July where I got pregnant again. Lost it in September. I'm only waiting now because of test results that are due and as soon as they are back and all is ok, we'll be trying straight away.

My advise is to go with your heart. It's a very emotional time as well as physical. It doesn't matter how ready your body is, if you are not emotionally ready then I'd advise to wait. If you are ready then I'd say go right ahead. After having three miscarriages, my attitude towards trying has changed and I'm now just going with the flow instead of worrying and trying to get everything perfect. I wish you both luck and you'll get your dream come true soon.



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Old Jan 11th, 2011, 05:41 AM   16
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Can I just say to you both that having experienced a few miscarriages that each one feels different. I didn't wait after my first and caught quickly with twins. When I lost them I waited a full year and on a one-off holiday to Disneyland Florida last July where I got pregnant again. Lost it in September. I'm only waiting now because of test results that are due and as soon as they are back and all is ok, we'll be trying straight away.

My advise is to go with your heart. It's a very emotional time as well as physical. It doesn't matter how ready your body is, if you are not emotionally ready then I'd advise to wait. If you are ready then I'd say go right ahead. After having three miscarriages, my attitude towards trying has changed and I'm now just going with the flow instead of worrying and trying to get everything perfect. I wish you both luck and you'll get your dream come true soon.
Im so sorry for your losses, and i totally agree, i think its really personal to know you feel about things. i know part of me isnt ready but most of me is. I know if i MC again i would need to wait, just to emotionally get through it. but i know there isnt a right and wrong way to deal with it, everyone will deal with them differently. part of me is still in shock i think and i wonder if that will catch up with me in the next few days, but right now im going with that i think is right for me.

Wishing you lots of luck, i agree with the going with the flow, both times i conceieved i wanted actively trying or thinking about it at all. the months i did everything "right" i didnt conceive, the months i just had sex to have sex and not worry about laying down after etc were the months i caught, so i def beleive that going with the flow works. good luck xx



 
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