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Old Jan 9th, 2011, 11:23 AM   1
2bmommy
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Not sure when to start trying ... ssoo confused!


My name is Sandy. I'm 24 turning 25 in May. I just got married July-10 and 6 months later both my husband and I are so baby hungry! We want to TTC asap!
This is the problem. I quit my job after 5yrs in November and got a new one. Well I hate the new job and wish i stayed at my old one! Im not sure if I should look for another job all together OR stick at this one and start to TTC now. I'm not planning on returning to work after the baby at all. I want to take a year off and then open a home day care. We also have $3000 in dept we have to pay off. (I hate debt!)

So my question is: Do you think we should TTC starting now .. or after I find a new job and wait two mths b4 TTC?



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Old Jan 9th, 2011, 18:54 PM   2
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Anyone?



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Old Jan 10th, 2011, 04:57 AM   3
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Well I would say considering you are not planning on going back to work afterwards is there really much point in delaying for however long it may take to find a new job and then the 2 months for you to be in the new place! Would it not make more sense to stick it out where you are (as awful as it may be) and start TTC now as the pro's surely outweigh the cons?

Just my thoughts, if you were planning on going back to work then I would say make sure you were in a job you were happy in but as your not I do not see the sense in waiting to find a new one?

Hope that helps!



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Old Jan 10th, 2011, 12:12 PM   4
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I agree with Twag, if you're not planning on returning there after the baby is born I would say TTC now and stick with this job in the mean time.



 
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Old Jan 10th, 2011, 13:41 PM   5
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Hi 2bmommy!

We're very similar! I am 24 and my husband is 27, we got married in July 2010and we want to start trying now.

I am waiting until Feb as I will get full maternity pay - I can't wait! I say go for it, you can still work whist you're pregnant and pay your debt off during that period. Good Luck!

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Old Jan 10th, 2011, 14:15 PM   6
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i agree with twag, i would ttc now if u arent going back to work after u have a baby anyways, who knows it could take a few months to get a



 
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Old Jan 12th, 2011, 10:01 AM   7
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Thank you for your advice ladies. Over the past couple of days, my husband and I have been talking about TTC and I've decided to just stick it out. Hopefully I'll get prego asap
So we will begin to try in Feb .. excitied

Thanks again ladies!



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Old Jan 12th, 2011, 11:33 AM   8
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My gut would be to say go for it! :-) as it does not always happen right away anyway BUT you are still young and you need to decide what feels right for you.
Good luck on a quick BFP when you decide to start TTC :-)



 
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Old Jan 12th, 2011, 12:06 PM   9
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Hi,
I also got married last July and hubby and I are really looking forward to TTC.

I think it depends how much u dislike your job! In the past ive been in a job ive hated and knew I had to 'get out quick' as it was making me feel so unhappy. If you think you can stick with it until you have a baby then start TTC now!!

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Old Jan 13th, 2011, 11:22 AM   10
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Good luck with the TTC in Feb



 
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