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Old Jan 10th, 2011, 18:42 PM   1
SuperMommy
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Confused!!! Need to vent!!!


Well!! To make my story short...

I came off the IUD on november 17, 2010. got my on 12/25 and on 12/30 I had a MC!! Now hubby and I decided we might want to just hold off and wait to the moment is just right (dont know when that would be)...

We are hoping to start trying after August 2011... we will take our yearly WDW trip in August and want to be able and enjoy this trips with my LO!! a son who is 8 and a daughter who is 4, we wanted to have a 2-4 gap in between our babies, but not sure about this one... after we have our third DH will be getting a vasectomy!!! .... could you believe he asked me if he should just have the vasectomy and not try for a third , I mean I guess we are fine with 2, but I am so excited to have a third!!!

Last night when I questioned him he just said, we will have a third babes... but that does not answer my question "Does he want a third?"

We are financially stable, our kids are healthy and have everything they need!! Do we really need a third? Am i just being selfish? things will changed by having another one!!

Sorry I just had to vent



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Old Jan 10th, 2011, 19:05 PM   2
daisybby03
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SORRY FOR YOU LOSS FIRST OF ALL! Second, the more children the merrier! If you are able to take cake of them...why not?! That's why we are holding off on our second b/c of money...



 
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Old Jan 10th, 2011, 19:15 PM   3
SuperMommy
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I think that my husband is concerned about money, he feels at this point we are great but maybe if we add a third child things wont be so easy!!! I mean come on!!! Its not like we will be "broke" if we have another baby... All this time we have been talking about it, he insisted I remove my IUD, now we are doing the withdrawal method???? This is just too funny, and nerve wrecking!! He did say he does not want me to go on BC, and he will not use any condoms, but we will be on withdrawal??? come on!!!!



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Old Jan 11th, 2011, 11:19 AM   4
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sorry for what ur going through. Cant u talk to ur OH and tell him just how much u want another LO? if money isnt too bad then why not good luck



 
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