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Old Jan 16th, 2011, 05:10 AM   21
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i'm still bf & on mini pill so not too sure if AF has returned yet. i also want to spend a good amount of 1 to 1 time with alfie before i bring another baby in to the equasion. I dont want to leave it too long tho, when alfie it about 18 months i'd like to start ttc again.

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Old Jan 16th, 2011, 09:33 AM   22
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You guys have reminded me of lots more reasons why we're waiting to try! lol.

I think some reasons are valid but others are less essential.

Own our own home
Save money
Get fit
Sort career

I think it's important to realise what is important to you as an individual and not try to do what others expect you to do before you have a baby. At the end of the day having a baby will be one of the biggest most amazing things we do in life and who cares if eveything isn't totally perfect before that happens. As the old saying goes 'we'll manage'

p.s Junebug your baby is adorable!

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Old Jan 16th, 2011, 12:48 PM   23
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My reasons are;

Me and OH need to finish courses
Would like to go on holiday
Possibly move house
Saving a bit of money up in the meantime wouldnt hurt

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Old Jan 16th, 2011, 15:24 PM   24
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I guess I just need to work on my life a bit more first.

I want to get at least a certificate so I can get a better job than what I've got... preferably work a couple of years.

I want to get married first.

We want to renovate the house a bit too. Possibly move!

And see what's going to happen with OH's job. He'd take a temporary pay cut to be an apprentice... then when he got his papers get a raise from where he's at now and be qualified to do much more than he is, even if he knows how to do it already lol.

I think I'll be like 25. I'm 21 now..

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Old Jan 16th, 2011, 22:11 PM   25
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I just have a few 2 year old horses that need to be started first and trying to plan for a winter baby to not cut into my horse time as much as possible (no indoor arena) but other than that I guess it all depends on my body and my endometriosis. We will start trying in June. I just finished my last pill and now I'm going to start tracking and making note of changes in my cycle.

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