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Old Jan 12th, 2011, 14:30 PM   1
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Feeling hurt


Jus found out dat a girl who i fort woz a good friend is pregnant and i am the last to know for some reason when it comes to her dramas im jus not important or existant and when i try to ask her whats wrong because i can see shes upset i jus get ' Oh its a long story' with no further explanation ive never done or said anything to betray her trust and fort we got on well i wasnt expecting her to tell me first because i know that she wouldnt be the first person id tell just wouldve liked to hear it from her

Although deep down i am a little bit jealous im happy for her and wish her all the best as shes not exactly in the most stable relationship and still lives at home and dont think her mum is too happy about the situation me and OH have our reasons for waiting and id rather our child is planned so we can provide a better life for our future child not saying ill be the most amazing mum or anything just a little extra money coming in wouldnt hurt

Sorry for the winge jus tryin to get out how i feel x



 
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Old Jan 12th, 2011, 16:05 PM   2
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Things get better in time, I understand your reasons for waiting

How long have you known her?



 
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Old Jan 13th, 2011, 11:52 AM   3
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^^ i agree ^^ time will help, maybe u need to tell her how u feel pushed aside?



 
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Old Jan 14th, 2011, 12:46 PM   4
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Soz nly jus havnt had time to log on today ive known her almost a year so not like we were childhood friends or anything but still one of the closest ive got as we got on reallly well

I hope it will was mainly jus looking forward to having a break from pregnant people as 4 women i know have just had babies and another 3 are ready to drop anytime between now and february soo guess thats not gonna happen now

I dont want to sit there moaning about myself when its her moment and shes probably got bigger things to worry about then little old me ... add to that the fact that i was already having a bad week, this was just the cherry on top i suppose



 
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