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Old Jan 13th, 2011, 13:46 PM   1
Lenny
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its ok to be scared out ure wits right??


ok well this is the only place i feel safe revealing these feelings me and OH have planned this for 6 months now and ive been so excited wishing the months past and now its here iam getting my implant out 2morra morning and iam soo scared lol thats normal right i mean iam excited at the same time my friends cant believe how excited iam about it but whats not exciting about planning ure family i always said to them!!

We have a lil one already but shes my step daughter i met her when she just turned 2 and i love her to bits she nearly 4 now and ive loved watching her grow up some days its stressful and those days i get scared how iam going to cope with a new baby to ive always said iam only experienced with the age 2+ lol iam already a full time mam so i no what iam getting myself into but the beginning part is all new to me its ok to be scared right??

Do any of you feel scared?? even on ure second one??

Sorry had to vent my feelings



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Old Jan 13th, 2011, 14:12 PM   2
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Its completely normal to be scared, i posted a topic on here afew weeks back about the same thing and i admit, even though i cant wait till we TTC i am really scared about it. I worry about everything (i have OCD lol) and i over think everything but i know deep down in my heart having a child and a family is all i want. im sure u will be fine chic, its completely natural x



 
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Old Jan 13th, 2011, 14:25 PM   3
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ow iam exactly the same i over think everything i get it from my mam i drive my OH crazy with it sometimes lol ive always known all ive wanted is a family ever since i was younger when girls dreamed of being famous and glamourus i wanted to get a job find a nice man get a lovly house get married and have a family thats just what i want i no this is what i want sooo badly



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Old Jan 13th, 2011, 14:28 PM   4
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sounds like me yeah, i always wanted to be a mum, guess its cus my mum is amazing and does a wonderful job



 
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Old Jan 13th, 2011, 15:47 PM   5
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hi, I am in the same boat as you, I also have mine out tomorrow morning and im really nervous, I have had some form of contraception since I was 12 for my periods and 14 years later im about to find out what my own hormones are.

I have tried to be sensible about it all, but worried I will start to get obsessed. Dont get me wrong im not broody or anything like that really, I love kids and want them but the whole trying makes it so much more real that everything I do from tomorrow could effect falling or carrying without knowing



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Old Jan 13th, 2011, 17:27 PM   6
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COMPLETELY normal

Although I'm not there yet (and believe me, I am wishing April was here with my every bit of might lol) it is scary. I'm starting to track my cycles properly, take notice of CM, and use ovulation predictor kits to prepare and it is scary so I can imagine it's even scarier once it's actually here.
I've had a taste of it, as me and OH have been seconds away from just "doing it" there and then and just knowing we "could" well... shit me up But in a good way! I think it's nerves, mixed with excitement

Good luck hun, it's going to a lovely journey x



 
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Old Jan 13th, 2011, 18:23 PM   7
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yes this is normal.
i am scared too as all pregnancies are different, i found i carry boys easier than i do girls.
so this next pregnancy will be cool as i will be able to guess the sex from different symptoms.
both of our babies were surprises at the birth (both planned pregnancies) team yellow bumps.
am very nervous about trying for number 3 xxx



 
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Old Jan 14th, 2011, 02:20 AM   8
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eee well today is the day!! iam going to go drop the lil one at nursery then iam off down the docs eee iam kinda nervouse but i dont no if thats the thought of someone dragging something out my arm ouchie iam sure ill be fine thou lol

eee i kept feeling like it was all so surreal last night but here iam omg i cant believe ive waited all this time and its here!!

Wish me luck!!!



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Old Jan 14th, 2011, 11:37 AM   9
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good luck x



 
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Old Jan 14th, 2011, 15:00 PM   10
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that was me this morning to lol like a little school girl starting her 1st day, all excited yet nervious all the same.

So guess its a waiting game for us both now, good luck xx



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