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Old Jan 18th, 2011, 03:17 AM   11
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Stupid isn't it because if we had an opppps we'd work around it, we'd cope and we'd be fine!! Ohh dear! X

exactly what i said doesnt make sense, if we'd be fine with an oops why the hell are we waiting? could take months/years to get a anyways grrrr!
I agree if we had a oopps ok I haven't yet finished my exams but not the end of the world and we would cope just fine and OH would be happy!

I think the making us wait is just a way for them try and have some sort of control as after that point they don't really have any over the pregnancy and birth really!



 
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Old Jan 18th, 2011, 08:52 AM   12
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I think that's completely it Twag!! It's a small way for the men to have a little more control over the situation, or it feels like that for me at the moment. I don't mean to be rude about my OH, i do love him to pieces, but he knows as well that he is COMPLETELY in control at the moment.

I always feel (and have said on the boards here many times), that if we had an oops, yes things would change drastically/really fast, but he'd still be really happy about the situation.

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Old Jan 18th, 2011, 11:15 AM   13
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Stupid isn't it because if we had an opppps we'd work around it, we'd cope and we'd be fine!! Ohh dear! X

exactly what i said doesnt make sense, if we'd be fine with an oops why the hell are we waiting? could take months/years to get a anyways grrrr!
I agree if we had a oopps ok I haven't yet finished my exams but not the end of the world and we would cope just fine and OH would be happy!

I think the making us wait is just a way for them try and have some sort of control as after that point they don't really have any over the pregnancy and birth really!


Completely agree with u chick, my OH only said today he loves to have control of things and knows he has me wrapped around his little finger guess i havent got a choice but to wait for him to decide when its right for us no matter how heartbreaking it is for me wont be anytime soon either



 
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Old Jan 18th, 2011, 13:28 PM   14
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I don't know is my OH half feels that he's in control or not. I actually feel like he feels out of control because of me wanting to get pregnant. He keeps talking about all the stuff he wants to do before May and it sounds like it's his last meal before he gets executed, lol. I think he really believes that his life is going to be over when we have a baby. But I think it's because he's never been around children before. He told me one night when we were arguing about it "I'm never going to be ready! You're going to just have to force me into it!". But he knows I would never do that - I'll never do it before he's ready. So, yeah I guess he is in control of this situation.



 
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Old Jan 18th, 2011, 13:51 PM   15
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I don't know is my OH half feels that he's in control or not. I actually feel like he feels out of control because of me wanting to get pregnant. He keeps talking about all the stuff he wants to do before May and it sounds like it's his last meal before he gets executed, lol. I think he really believes that his life is going to be over when we have a baby. But I think it's because he's never been around children before. He told me one night when we were arguing about it "I'm never going to be ready! You're going to just have to force me into it!". But he knows I would never do that - I'll never do it before he's ready. So, yeah I guess he is in control of this situation.

again u could be talking about my OH lol he says exactly the same things to me, just means he is in control of my destiny



 
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