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Old Jan 16th, 2011, 15:38 PM   1
LoraLoo
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More than 3 Unacceptable?


We have 4 children but sadly lost Eve 3 years agoso have 3 living children. Have only told a couple of close friends we are going to TTC this year as my Mum has said many a time that 3 is more than enough and gone on about expense, room etc...anyone ese has similar comments?? xxxxxx



 
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Old Jan 16th, 2011, 15:41 PM   2
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I've always wanted a big family and won't let anyone put me off of that. If you want more children then its your decision not your mums. Good luck hun.



 
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Old Jan 16th, 2011, 15:43 PM   3
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ive always wanted a big family, the more the merrier



 
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Old Jan 16th, 2011, 15:46 PM   4
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I've always wanted a big family and won't let anyone put me off of that. If you want more children then its your decision not your mums. Good luck hun.
Thanks hun, i know i shouldnt let other peoples comments bother me...years ago 8, 9, 10 kids were the norm! I just need to be a bit more brass n tell them to bugger off! Your baby shares my eldest daughters birthday btw he's beautiful xxxxxx



 
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Old Jan 16th, 2011, 15:49 PM   5
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A lady near me has 6 children, shes happy, her children are happy, whats the harm? You have more than enough love to give, and can meet their needs, so theres nothing to say you shouldnt have more. x



 
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Old Jan 16th, 2011, 15:49 PM   6
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Aww thanks. Eve is a gorgeous baby xx



 
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Old Jan 16th, 2011, 15:58 PM   7
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A lady near me has 6 children, shes happy, her children are happy, whats the harm? You have more than enough love to give, and can meet their needs, so theres nothing to say you shouldnt have more. x
I think, I feel guilty for Amy...cos she's just that bit extra special n our rainbow baby, I just feel some people think we should be grateful for what we have. And I truly am, but I cANT HELP MY Maternal instincts People make me feel bad for wanting ! Kids are all I ever wanted.. just wish people would understand xxxxxxxxx



 
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Old Jan 16th, 2011, 16:01 PM   8
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I totally know what you mean about your instincts. I am broody as hell right now and would love nothing more than to be having a brother or sister for James. But I am now single again and finding it incredibly hard considering we were going to be starting prenatal vitamins this month and TTC in the summer. Maternal instinct is something that is so strong that it is impossible to ignore.



 
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Old Jan 16th, 2011, 16:05 PM   9
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Hun there are quite a few women here with 6,7,9 kids! And look at the pictures of them, all with many buddies close to their age Big happy families. If that is what you want in life, then that is what you should go for. I have never heard of any adult complaining they had too many brothers & sisters growing up. Sure, maybe they might have to share a bedroom for a few years but think of the special friendship all your kids will have when they are all grown up and you & your OH are no longer around. You cannot buy that kind of friendship! Good luck



 
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Old Jan 16th, 2011, 16:09 PM   10
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I know a woman that has 12, to me thats going a bit far but 4/5/6 is normal.



 
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