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Old Jan 18th, 2011, 11:20 AM   1
odd_socks
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broodiness turning depressive?


anyone find themselves really depressed with broodiness? i think not knowing how long ive got to wait is making it worse i dont see it happening anytime soon the OH is far too happy at how our relationship is now and doesnt want it to change



 
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Old Jan 18th, 2011, 11:40 AM   2
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Yeah I completely know how you feel it's so crap.
Although I am in an accidental 2WW, but I bet it will be a BFN.
I hate getting down about it though, it's not the kind of thing you can really chat to your friends/family about.



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Old Jan 18th, 2011, 11:47 AM   3
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i know how u feel all my friends already have kids or are pregnant so dont really understand how it feels my OH tries to understand but men and broodiness dont really go together lol



 
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Old Jan 18th, 2011, 11:49 AM   4
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Mmm men seem to follow their heads rather than hearts in this case!



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Old Jan 18th, 2011, 11:51 AM   5
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i agree there, mine hates change, he loves how we are atm and he wont believe that TTC doesnt mean how we are has to change cus it doesnt



 
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Old Jan 18th, 2011, 12:02 PM   6
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Yeah I know, it's very frustrating. I feel that I can't talk to him about it often, I don't want to scare him any more than I already have haha!



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Old Jan 18th, 2011, 12:07 PM   7
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lol i think mines scared too but hes the only person i can really vent to, if i dont talk to him about it he thinks ive forgotten all about being broody as he thinks us women can do, even thou we cant



 
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Old Jan 18th, 2011, 12:09 PM   8
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I know! I feel the same way. Before the OH finally set a date I thought I would go insane. I'm still kinda scared that when May comes - he's going to change his mind and tell me he's still not ready. My hubby says the same stuff about how he doesn't want anything to change.



 
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Old Jan 18th, 2011, 12:13 PM   9
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I know! I feel the same way. Before the OH finally set a date I thought I would go insane. I'm still kinda scared that when May comes - he's going to change his mind and tell me he's still not ready. My hubby says the same stuff about how he doesn't want anything to change.
thats what worries me too he seemed happy for ntnp in april/may but now i dont see it happening then either just wish i knew when so i can at least look forward to it and aim towards that



 
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Old Jan 18th, 2011, 15:45 PM   10
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weird, I just came on BnB to see if anyone has posted about being depressed and broody!

Don't you think the whole thing comes in cycles? I mean some days I can be unbelievably broody, there is no way I can wait even another hour! Then some days it's bearable and I can get by thinking yeah TTC won't be far away. Then there are days where I feel so depressed, I don't want to leave the house.

I hope I'm not the only one

Our neighbour has just brought home their newborn boy today, it's hard to watch the balloons and friends/family coming and going!



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