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Old Jan 18th, 2011, 23:58 PM   11
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Haha! Oh my bf can't wait for my 'pregnant boobies'. He says he's gonna show me off when I'm all knocked up. I think it's cute! He's also wanting to be involved with my diet and exercise. I told him I have it handled and to back off unless I ask for help lol.



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Old Jan 19th, 2011, 03:28 AM   12
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My hubby is scared of pregnant woman I think it freaks him out slightly!
he is also worried about me getting out of shape and not being like I am now (5ft7 size 8/10) but I have promised him that I am going to be eating healthy and swimming whilst pregnant and working it off afterwards, I have no intention of the whole eating for 2 as I have worked so hard to maintain how I look now (was size 18 5 years ago)! He has also said we will not be having sex when I am pregnant as he feels it is wrong and doesn't want to hurt the baby!

But he is all up for rubbing in the cream on my belly etc to keep moisturised so at least he is wanting to be involved



 
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Old Jan 19th, 2011, 11:25 AM   13
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Not every woman loses there before baby body! I weighed 97 lbs when I got pregnant...gained 35 lbs while pregnant and I am now 97 lbs again. I look exactly the same. Not a single stretch mark either. Although boobies could be a little tighter..but I'll take what I got
I had a vaginal birth and I will admit, sex was different for many months while things "tightened" up. Although men are such horn dogs I dont think they can go with out
besides after you birth THEIR baby you have a whole new look to them. They look at you as this amazing person who gave birth to their daughter/son
he is just scared now...he will change as you get pregnant



 
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Old Jan 19th, 2011, 11:49 AM   14
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don't worry girls. they'll change their mind.

my OH is not like that. but some men are. they say that most of the time dad's don't feel connected to the baby until they first hold the baby :]
but when they see your belly they'll see how beautiful the whole process is....at least...they better! or else let me know and i'll knock some sense into them!! ;]



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Old Jan 19th, 2011, 12:24 PM   15
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don't worry girls. they'll change their mind.

my OH is not like that. but some men are. they say that most of the time dad's don't feel connected to the baby until they first hold the baby :]
but when they see your belly they'll see how beautiful the whole process is....at least...they better! or else let me know and i'll knock some sense into them!! ;]
please give my OH a talking to then



 
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Old Jan 19th, 2011, 12:43 PM   16
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Haha, I'm with you Sany! We can bring my OH too. He can't wait for me to be pregnant! Just remind them of how big your boobies are gonna get and they will feel alot better lol.



 
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Old Jan 19th, 2011, 12:57 PM   17
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don't worry girls. they'll change their mind.

my OH is not like that. but some men are. they say that most of the time dad's don't feel connected to the baby until they first hold the baby :]
but when they see your belly they'll see how beautiful the whole process is....at least...they better! or else let me know and i'll knock some sense into them!! ;]
please give my OH a talking to then
haha! let me at em! >:0



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Old Jan 19th, 2011, 14:07 PM   18
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My OH was very strange.. the again Mylo came as a shock.. But still.. Men act so selfishly when scared..
I have forgiven him now and hes a great dad just as I knew he would be..
but He was a twat to me through pregnancy.. felt strange having wouldnt touch my belly.. kicked off if i even read pregnancy mags in front of him.. but he was just scared.

they say and do things they dont mean.. cos when they have their baby,
thats all they care about then
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Old Jan 19th, 2011, 14:18 PM   19
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Oh My Gosh I cant believe he said that to you!!! Ahh I would freak too. Its wierd I actually used to not want my husband in the room when I gave birth but rather his mom.... I just would feel wierd with him having to see something so big coming out of my vagigi lol. I saw on Dr. Phil awhile back that I think it was something like 90% of men arent sexually attracted to their wifes as much after they see that. Which would really suck for me because I love that my husband is so attracted to me.

Well since then we have talked and he has made it clear he wants to be in the room to help me but he agreed not to look down there hehe. I made him watch a birthing video so he knew what he was getting into.. Its wierd though that video freaked me out WAY more than it botherd him. Oh am I lucky, lets just hope he still feels the same when that day comes lol.

Normal guys yes do worrie about that kind of stuff. I would recomend going to the gym now if you dont already, just so he knows he doesnt have to worry about what happens to your body. It will show him you care about your body just as much as he does, and that your not going to become an "ugly" mom.... Or just tell him to F****** off lol jp.
Besides women who breast feed drop the weight pretty quickly and by doing ab exercises and eating right your tummy would be back to normal in no time!



 
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Old Jan 19th, 2011, 15:09 PM   20
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LoL my OH says he's not going to look past my chest when delivery time comes. I asked 'aren't you even a little curious?' He says 'no thanks, I'm good.' LoL!



 
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