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Old Jan 19th, 2011, 16:02 PM   21
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Lol I sure hope my husband isnt down there watching! I just want him there for support and so I can rip his hand off from being in pain lol.



 
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Old Jan 19th, 2011, 16:28 PM   22
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@Jewelsb- haha yes me too!



 
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Old Jan 19th, 2011, 16:38 PM   23
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Lol yeah.... I really hope we get a BFP this month though! Its so hard waiting for it to decide when to happen!



 
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Old Jan 19th, 2011, 17:01 PM   24
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well good luck and baby dust your way, girl!!



 
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Old Jan 19th, 2011, 19:22 PM   25
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Oh My Gosh I cant believe he said that to you!!! Ahh I would freak too. Its wierd I actually used to not want my husband in the room when I gave birth but rather his mom.... I just would feel wierd with him having to see something so big coming out of my vagigi lol. I saw on Dr. Phil awhile back that I think it was something like 90% of men arent sexually attracted to their wifes as much after they see that. Which would really suck for me because I love that my husband is so attracted to me.

Well since then we have talked and he has made it clear he wants to be in the room to help me but he agreed not to look down there hehe. I made him watch a birthing video so he knew what he was getting into.. Its wierd though that video freaked me out WAY more than it botherd him. Oh am I lucky, lets just hope he still feels the same when that day comes lol.

Normal guys yes do worrie about that kind of stuff. I would recomend going to the gym now if you dont already, just so he knows he doesnt have to worry about what happens to your body. It will show him you care about your body just as much as he does, and that your not going to become an "ugly" mom.... Or just tell him to F****** off lol jp.
Besides women who breast feed drop the weight pretty quickly and by doing ab exercises and eating right your tummy would be back to normal in no time!
I KNOW!! But, you know what? I really do agree with these girls who were saying that some men just get really scared. When my hubby is scared his filter goes away and he just says what's on his mind! Gr, I feel better though! We've talked about it since and we're better.



 
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Old Jan 19th, 2011, 19:45 PM   26
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Oh My Gosh I cant believe he said that to you!!! Ahh I would freak too. Its wierd I actually used to not want my husband in the room when I gave birth but rather his mom.... I just would feel wierd with him having to see something so big coming out of my vagigi lol. I saw on Dr. Phil awhile back that I think it was something like 90% of men arent sexually attracted to their wifes as much after they see that. Which would really suck for me because I love that my husband is so attracted to me.

Well since then we have talked and he has made it clear he wants to be in the room to help me but he agreed not to look down there hehe. I made him watch a birthing video so he knew what he was getting into.. Its wierd though that video freaked me out WAY more than it botherd him. Oh am I lucky, lets just hope he still feels the same when that day comes lol.

Normal guys yes do worrie about that kind of stuff. I would recomend going to the gym now if you dont already, just so he knows he doesnt have to worry about what happens to your body. It will show him you care about your body just as much as he does, and that your not going to become an "ugly" mom.... Or just tell him to F****** off lol jp.
Besides women who breast feed drop the weight pretty quickly and by doing ab exercises and eating right your tummy would be back to normal in no time!
I KNOW!! But, you know what? I really do agree with these girls who were saying that some men just get really scared. When my hubby is scared his filter goes away and he just says what's on his mind! Gr, I feel better though! We've talked about it since and we're better.
Thats good! Im usually the one who says what on my mind when im scared b4 thinking not hubby lol were the opposite!



 
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Old Jan 20th, 2011, 00:02 AM   27
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yay, im glad you're feeling better! :]

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Old Jan 21st, 2011, 15:07 PM   28
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my daughter was a 'surprise' and my oh could hardly look at me when i was pregnant. he didn't even wanna hug me cause he said my bump felt 'weird'. sex- no way! he was like this the whole 9 months, then in the delivery room he totally changed! the minute our daughter was born he cried and apologised for the way he had treated me! he couldn'e stop thanking me for giving him his wee girl.
when we talk about how he made me feel then, he says that he was scared of the responsibility of having a baby. he didn't know if we could afford it and basically he was being selfish- thinking about taking care of a baby!
i have since been pregnant twice and miscarried both times, but he has been so loving and caring. even rubbing my tummy when there was nothing to rub but fat!
i had a great figure b4 i had my little girl, now i'm a few stone heavier and a bit thicker about the middle, but my oh loves me and our daughter just the way we are.



 
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Old Jan 21st, 2011, 17:15 PM   29
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LoL my OH says he's not going to look past my chest when delivery time comes. I asked 'aren't you even a little curious?' He says 'no thanks, I'm good.' LoL!
Lol my OH said he was definately not going down that end when i gave birth but the midwife asked him to hold my leg and she held the other while i pushed, so he kinda had to look. But he is really glad he did and said it wasn't as bad as he thought. So you never know he may change his mind in the delivery room



 
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